ok for a while now i knew this realllllly bad secret about my best friend and today this guy wanted to know why she wasnt allowed to go wit him to semi formal...and so at first i really didnt want to tell him and i kept saying no..but he pressered me into it and i told him..now this secret isnt like oh i kissed a guy its pretty bad..and since its pretty bad i cant announce it over the internet...but i do trust this guy a little bit..but i feel like wht if he tells someone...then im screwed and i lose my best friend..i kinda regret telling him now..but im unsure of wht would of happened if i wasnt to tell him...help me plz...wht do i do?...
2006-11-03 10:45:20 · 10 answers · asked by Cutie101 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you tell your friend what you've done before she hears it from someone else and hope she forgives you. You also need to understand that she may not confide in you anymore for a while, you need to earn her trust and respect again.
2006-11-03 10:49:36 · answer #1 · answered by duce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is that you've betrayed your friend's trust...and that's bad. The only thing you can do now is pray that the guy doesn't start telling everyone about it. If you could blackmail him that would be great - but I'm guessing you can't otherwise you would have already done it.
2006-11-03 10:49:27 · answer #2 · answered by John P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HMM comparable situation befell to me then i found out i will do something with a woman yet have intercourse or oral regardless of im no longer waiting for that or dont choose it dont kno yet i do love ladies and to kiss and hug and proportion issues so its extraordinary i kno.. umm i think of u ought to bypass out along with her and spot the way it is going yet while theres plans on being on my own for a on an analogous time as perhaps u ought to attend until eventually ur completely specific of what u choose.
2016-10-15 08:36:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your friend you betrayed her trust, and see where the friendship goes from there. Almost ALL PEOPLE wait till after the clearly bad decision to feel bad for making it.
2006-11-03 10:49:15 · answer #4 · answered by mrtoddanson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you shouldn't of had told that guy the secret since you could lose your best friend!! And second of all, I cant answer you if you dont tell me what you told him..! lol
2006-11-03 10:50:27 · answer #5 · answered by narr ツ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your screwed, the best thing for you to do is tell your friend before she finds out later .......
2006-11-03 10:48:28 · answer #6 · answered by RedCloud_1998 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, a whole paragraph and I have no idea what you are talking about
2006-11-03 10:47:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ur friend that you told him and then tell her who u told. she'll take it from there. she may say she hates u, and then itll get better (or it could get worse), or she could shrug it off and b ok w/it.
2006-11-03 10:48:12 · answer #8 · answered by Traveler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people can't be trusted liket that just pray and hope he dont spill the beans
2006-11-03 10:48:22 · answer #9 · answered by jumiboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, glad I do not have you as a friend.
2006-11-03 10:47:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋