how do i get someone to notice me for who i am. I dont want to have to act like a fool for them to realise that i exist, but im also kinda shy so id rather that they came to me. what is the best way to do this?
2006-11-03 10:06:44 · 4 answers · asked by jst4di 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
be your self. dont be shy, if you dont approach them they wont come to you. so go there and show them that you can be as cool and as great just the way you are. talk, make jokes, disscus, even argue, defend your opinion and value your words. if you do that your self everyone else will too.
2006-11-03 10:11:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. You might be shy and you want might them to come to you, but act out. Not like a fool, but join a club or ask and sit with someone. You can do almost anything. I had a hard time with my shyness but I decided that I am just going to be myself and see where that takes me. It brought me to where I am today. Now I am a lot of friends. If you are at school, speak up on a question. Or do something to catch someones attention. That is what I did.
2006-11-03 18:10:15 · answer #2 · answered by localsports18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes time for shy people to be notice i go through the same, so be patient.
2006-11-03 18:18:44 · answer #3 · answered by Hayla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself !
2006-11-03 18:10:11 · answer #4 · answered by Latin Techie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋