well I'm in 7th grade and thats the hardest seen your going throught changes. I have some friends that say some bad things too me that should not have been said. like i get called you have a big forhead or seen that my father died whaen i was 2 people make jokes about that i hate it usally i go out crying and run to a bathroom stall. i am sometimes late fro class and sometimes my grade get low because of friends.what can i do pleasae help i dont want to fail school or lose frinds.
2006-11-03 10:06:11 · 3 answers · asked by Tiffany F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hon, your definition of "friend" is not the same as mine. Friends don't make friends cry.
Spend less time with people who send you emotionally. Try to single out one person who treats you with respect and spend some time with them. Decline offers to spend time when it involves the "friends" that upset you, dear.
You can ask to spend some time with the school counselor. She can provide you with an impartial view and keep your conversations confidential. You won't be the first student to discuss this kind of problem. It boils down to RESPECT. And 13 year olds can be quite disrespectful and immature.
I'm sorry your peers are so cruel. It's up to you to decide if you want this in your life. If you don't, dump the mean ones.
2006-11-04 02:34:27 · answer #1 · answered by Sunbaby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tiffany -
If they are treating you like that.........they are NOT your friends.
You are right that you are in a tough time of your life, but know
that real friends would not treat you like that.
Also, remember that people are mean to get a reaction from you.... when people make jokes just smile and say something back like "thats right I have a big forehead....the bigger the forehead the bigger the brain." I have a big forehead and that
is what my Grandpa told me.
Anyway, take a deep breathe and hold your tears til you get home. I know it doesnt seem like it, but if you stop giving them a reaction........they will stop picking on you.
Good luck and remember it DOES get better.
2006-11-03 18:14:15 · answer #2 · answered by Trish 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear Tiffany,
This sounds like really ****.
These peope aren't your friends. You should probably speak to an authority about this as it's going to **** you up.
Good luck.
2006-11-03 18:37:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋