i have been divorced 3 years, i hate my ex with everything in my body, he is a child molester and a liar!! he has been in florida for the last three years, but now he is back, he never calls my kids or sees them, but he is mad i know be is back.. i wasnt supposed to find out and he has already tried to steal my son from me once.. he has no parental rights at all, now because he is in such close proximity to us and is trying to find out exactly where we are... i am afraid he will try something, he has made death threats on me, and has threatened to take my kids.... what can i do?? i have already notified my kids' school and daycares is there any thing else??
2006-11-03 09:59:03 · 11 answers · asked by kjphillips_hines 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
first of all...get a restraining order on him! this will do two maybe three things, 1. it will let the police know that there;s a problem and will watch the house more times a night. 2. If he does com around, the police have probable cause to take him to jail 3. if he does try and hurt you or hurt,(take) your children and you decide that shooting him was the amount of force nessary to save you and your children's life's and the police will already be aware of this threat and court proceedings if it goes that far, will go a lot better for you. You still have the right to protect you and your family at any means deemed fit! lethal force is not out of the question, but it should be last resource. good luck.
2006-11-03 10:08:41 · answer #1 · answered by dhwilson58 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-21 21:43:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the police and file a restraining order against him. Tell them he has tried to take your son. Without any legal rights to your children, he will be seen as an attempted kidknapper, and the last time I looked, that is a felony charge. Try to have him put in jail every chance you get. Remember to stay within the law... Hope this helps you and good luck......
2006-11-03 10:07:13 · answer #3 · answered by P-Nut 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you have police reports and get a restraining order.
Listen to this next part:If you think there is even an ounce of a chance that he will take your child, leave. Go somewhere and stay with someone you trust. If you can, get out of Florida. Figure out the rest later.
2006-11-03 10:01:41 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call the police about the death threats, they may be able to lay charges. See a justice of the peace about getting a restraining order on him.
2006-11-03 10:02:46 · answer #5 · answered by joeanonymous 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a restraining order against him. Tell everyone you know about your situation in case you come up missing.
If you're really that afraid, Move.
2006-11-03 10:02:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he is just in town 4 a while and u no how long he will be there 4 then get out of town and tell ur kids we r going on vacation
2006-11-03 10:03:10 · answer #7 · answered by nikki c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, go somewhere safe or ask the police to give you someone to guard your place. Good luck.
2006-11-03 10:12:01 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the cops involved, if he is convicted of molesting won't be hard.
2006-11-03 10:03:43 · answer #9 · answered by SRC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the police and report every thing you know about him, keep safe.....
2006-11-03 10:05:44 · answer #10 · answered by twinsters 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋