im kinda scared. im not sure if im going to be "good" at it...is your first kiss really as scary as everyone says? what are some good ways to prepare for it and how do you know when the guy wants to kiss you back?
2006-11-03 09:35:45 · 34 answers · asked by just meee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Great, so scary new generation! Simple things are taken as hype!
2006-11-03 19:36:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
It is kinda scary. You'll know when the guy wants to kiss you back - he might even beat you to the punch and kiss you first. Either way, it's your very first kiss, and those are usually just a quick peck anyhow. No one ever dives right in with this totally amazing, heart-breaking, walk-on-the-beach, stop-time kiss. Just doesn't happen. So don't worry about it. Give him a kiss the way you know how - a quick little one, and the two of you will learn how you prefer to kiss together as time goes on. Everyone kisses a little differently, so this is something you'll learn about each other after a little while.
2006-11-03 09:40:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Look at it this way, honey - you can always *do* something, but you can't always *undo" something. In other words, it's better to wait for the right moment, then to hurry up and pick the wrong moment. And don't worry, you're totally normal - I know girls who got their first kiss at 10, and some who got theirs at 20 - so you just gotta go with what's right for you.
It's not really "scary" - more nervewracking, excited-good-scared. The best scenario is when you like the guy and he likes you, and you have a nice date and hold hands and all that stuff, and then at the end before you say goodbye, you both get really nervous because you're both thinking about the kiss and wondering if you should go for it - and then one of you leans in and goes for it. =) And then you're both happy and don't know what to say and feel the urge to giggle, and then one of you murmurs good night and leaves quickly in a fluster. The *first* first kiss is great.
Good ways to prepare: practice staying calm around the guy(s) you like. practice giving hugs (the body mechanics are similar to setting up for a kiss). imagine various situations step-by-step, and exactly how you might move (like in sports, imagining every step of a shot helps the athlete follow through).
And if he's asked you out on a date or has held your hand or anything like that, he's pretty much guaranteed to want to kiss you. Some guys like to be the one to "make the move," but they are usually a bit nervous too, so they will appreciate it if you make "the move" easy on them.
Good luck! Relax! Enjoy!
2006-11-03 09:58:00 · answer #3 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your only 15 wahts the hurry? I hope you wait until you meet someone very special in your life. You will know when yu are ready and be sure the special someone is your goood friend before becomeing your boy friend because there are to many boys with raving hormones that will kiss a girl all the while hoping to go further if you know what I mean. You do not have to prepare for it . It will come naturaly and the guy will want to kiss as much if not more than you.
2006-11-03 09:51:02 · answer #4 · answered by tortuga 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I thought I was gonna be really good at my first kiss but I wasn't the best. lol. I don't really think that there is a way to prepare for your first kiss. You can try kissing your hand and stuff though thats not quite the same. Just go with the flow.
2006-11-03 09:38:10 · answer #5 · answered by Monkeyboots92 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I had my first kis when I was 15. Trust me, I had no idea it was coming. It was really romantic in an akward sort of way. You never really know when a first kiss is going to come into play. For good ways to prepare, I really don't know. It just happens. You never know it can happen at a coffee shop and someone accidently kisses you and you won't know it. Trust me, a first kiss is always better knowing that it will just happen, and when it happens, it will be great. Just don't be impatient and it will happen when you least expect it to happen. Trust me, that has happened with all of us.
2006-11-03 09:42:57 · answer #6 · answered by localsports18 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lol awwwwww i remeber mine....only like 18 months ago but lol this is the best tip ever
KEEP YOUR EYES OPEN!!!!!! LOL i made the mistake of having them close lol i didnt kiss him on the lips lol more like the corner of his lips, well i mean keep them open untill you know where your going then you can close them....
but yea it was kindof scary but not too much.
you cant really tell if he wants to kiss you back let him.
go up to him and kiss him (like i said above) and pull your head back a little to where he can only see your face and look at his eyes (if you cant dont worry about it just do this...) and then smile and do that little flirty giggle that us girls have. and if you want say sorry while doing the giggle he might kiss you back!
oh and also i planed to do this to my bf for my first time but
have some kissies (chocolate kisses that is) in your pocket and ask him if he wants a "kiss" and see how he reacts then pull one out (b4 he answers) and give it to him, if he blushes then go in for the kill o i mean the move :D lol its cute and i'm sure he will like it
by the way i'm talking on the lips but i guess you can do it on the check too
2006-11-03 09:51:15 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm 16 and I don't plan to kiss a guy for another 4 years. I'm very happy. Hee Hee! You're not alone. 90% of the 15 year old girls in my country haven't kissed, nor have any of my friends. Be happy!
2006-11-04 00:28:56 · answer #8 · answered by Ann 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey whats up, i'm also 15 and i havent yet had my first kiss. i've been told to just let it flow and just go along with what happens. the problem is that nothings happened yet. then i thought about it and then i said well maybe i'm just not ready yet. or maybe the right guy hasnt come along yet. so maybe its the same with you. dont go out looking to kiss someone, wait for that special someone to come kiss you
2006-11-03 09:39:55 · answer #9 · answered by Intricate Simplicity 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girl, let me tell ya......... The idea of the first kiss is what is making you nervous. Watching all the romantic movies, makes you want your first kiss to be magical.... yes, it will probably give you tingles....... but i agree with some of the others.... no matter what you do, it will be akward...... if you know he's going to kiss you.....just close your eyes, lean in a bit, and close your eyes, let him come to you!!
2006-11-03 09:46:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give it time, when you meet a guy, maybe he'll kiss you first!-don't be scared, the only thing to be scared of is meeting the wrong guy, &/or "going too far" with him,-one thing leads to another...if you know what I mean.
2006-11-03 09:46:06 · answer #11 · answered by strange-artist 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋