2006-11-03 09:27:56 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i was raped and ended up getting pregnant so i got an abortion and now half of the people who were supposedly my friends wont even talk to me.
2006-11-03 09:36:18 · update #1
No I would never do that. But I understand what it it like to be pregnant and young, I have two children and I am 24 years old. In life you have to learn how to be friends with people who might do things that you do not agree with. You have to not judge people by their mistakes, because most people have to live with many regrets, and if they lose thier friends over these things than the whole world would be alone. Just remember one thing, you will never know how your friend feels because you will never be in her shoes. Even if one day your are pregnant your situation will not or may not be exactly the same as your friends, so please don't pass judgment.
2006-11-03 09:33:45 · answer #1 · answered by CoutureCutie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not saying that abortion is good, or even sygested. I understand that the bady would have been a reminer of that for you, but it wasn't to blame. you should have explored other route - such as adoption?
as for your friends. they should understand how emotional the experience was for you, and although they might have had their opinions (like i did) the decision was ultimatly urs. If all those other people arn't speaking to ou coz of this then u dont want them as friends. This was a time when u needed support the most, but they were too stuck up to see that. U will be better with out them.
2006-11-03 09:58:18 · answer #2 · answered by jst4di 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I would support her. She must be going through a very ruff time right now. I am sure it is no fun having to have an abortion for what ever reason she had to do it. Help her through this.
2006-11-03 09:31:25 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO omg nooooo thats rediculous if she couldnt bring up a baby or feel like she could cope then she has done the right thing in aborting the baby!!
2006-11-03 09:29:38 · answer #4 · answered by *!*Rach H*!* 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no
its not right to judge someone on something like this. it is a very tough decision, and i think she will need support afterwards. if you are a true friend to her you wil be there for her.
but thats all circumstancial.. if depends on the situation.
just imagine youself in her situation before you turn on her.
hope it helps.
2006-11-03 09:31:45 · answer #5 · answered by sav3me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the situation if i would talk to her or not. if she was raped and she got an abortion then yes i would still talk to her. if she just wasn't ready to have a baby and she got knocked up then no i wouldn't talk to her anymore
2006-11-03 09:31:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of Course Not! Its not my body!
You have the right to choose even if the world doesn't agree.
Its your soul! I didn't mean that badly because I don't even believe in god..its just not my body.
2006-11-03 09:30:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldn't! I would respect her right to make her own decisions about her life, even if I disagree. That's what friends do.
2006-11-03 09:30:29 · answer #8 · answered by rebecca_sld 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This happened to me.
Everyone stopped talking to her family, teachers, friends.
Except me.
Deep down I couldn't understand why, she's soo sweet.
But she had reasons, and years later she's still one of my best friends.
2006-11-03 09:31:15 · answer #9 · answered by sikamikanica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her abortion is nobodies business. I would continue to be her friend.
2006-11-03 09:30:45 · answer #10 · answered by Emm 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋