I have been seeing a man for 6 months. For the first 4 months we talked daily and saw each other daily. The last 2 months, I hear from him almost daily (not more than a day will go by without some type of communication). Yet, now if I text message or leave him a voice mail - he doesn't always call back or when I talk to him he doesn't acknowledge the text or messages.
Would the assumption be he is not interested anymore and is just trying to quietly push me away? We were so intense together and then bam -- something has slowed down..... How can I figure him out???? (we are both in our middle 30s too.... Me - just finishing my divorce and he is in the middle of his divorce).
2006-11-03 09:21:41 · 6 answers · asked by Drew 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The best way to find out is to ask him face to face. You are both adults, so I think that would be the mature way to get the answer that you are looking for.
2006-11-03 09:24:48 · answer #1 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to back off a little!! You smothering him and it's a well known fact that when you smother a man her will run and hide from you. He's starting to see you as the clingy type, so chill out and let him have a little space. Since your both going through divorces, he may need a little time to heal from his divorce. Also hint of advice, don't try to rebound to soon after a divorce or break up, b/c 9 times out of 10 it will crash and burn.
2006-11-03 17:27:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not ask him?Face to Face, Communication is a wonderful thing.
From my experience, he is losing interest, or is distracted. Which will eventually lead to the two of you going your separate ways.
Both of you fresh from break-ups are not emotionally ready to move on with another. Maybe a break is needed. Does rebound mean anything to you?
2006-11-03 18:55:54 · answer #3 · answered by Suzi W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are both in vulnerable positions.Try to give him and yourself some space.He may just more comfortable than before or maybe you are communicating some things he is unable to address at this stage i.e.too serious.Relax and take some time for yourself.If it is meant to be he will hang in there and things will develop naturally.
2006-11-03 17:43:13 · answer #4 · answered by Style Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes scared of the commitment!!your both going through a divorce thats something in its self to re commit again...were in the world are you from ?
2006-11-03 17:25:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do when a man pulls back is to pull back, too. It's the hardest thing to do, but the best thing. If you pull back and he doesn't pull you forward again, you have your answer.
2006-11-03 17:55:20 · answer #6 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋