I am in my lower thirties and had been celebate for 6 years prior to recently getting married 1 year ago. I initially did not have this problem, but for the past several months, I have not been able to feel anything when I am having sex. Will I the sensivity ever return? Should I just see a doctor? Please provide any answers that can assist me. Thank you.
2006-11-03 09:08:09 · 5 answers · asked by concerned cat 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
have you or are you taking anti depresents or any other type of drug like that? heart meds, blood pressure meds? those can affect people sexualy... defianlty see your doctor right away.
2006-11-03 09:27:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Lawlz.
Thats what you get for being celibate for so long.
The parts of the body that aren't being used when they should tend to atrophy.... and stop working as much.
You might be able to get it working again, but that would involve deliberately overstimulating it on a regular basis for a rather long time (possibly years) .... or apply drugs.... I couldn't tell you what drugs though....
I mean... I have a sensitivity issue in my bloke-parts in the same fashion, probably due to my non-existant sex life in part..... but then thats generally helpful from my side of things (since I'm more of a giver than a receiver, and it helps me go on longer).
I suppose theres always the alternative:
LOADS of foreplay.
The rest of you still works fine.... right?
Blokes might have all their sexual sensors centres on their genitals.... but females don't. You have that advantage... so make use of it. Get your husband to make up and tell you sexually explicit stories before engaging in sex..... I mean I used to be in a long-distance marriage (very awkward) .... so I ended up doing that for my former other half quite a lot when I wasn't around to do it with her for real. She loved that stuff. ^_^
2006-11-03 17:16:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Sensitivity is one of the first and most important levels of arousal. If your skipping this level, you're not going to enjoy much at all. That's why women often need warming up. It could be that you're mentally not aroused or in the moment, or stressed, or if there is not enough foreplay.
2006-11-03 17:37:29 · answer #3 · answered by CheezyYumYums 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be a number of things. Possibly physical (nerve damage) or psychological. Definitely see a doctor and get a thorough checkup.
2006-11-03 17:13:13 · answer #4 · answered by dantheman_028 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would go see a ob/gn it might be a std or uti
2006-11-03 22:10:19 · answer #5 · answered by wendy d 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋