2006-11-03 09:00:28 · 18 answers · asked by jeffreybul23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
why do you say that? dont give up...the good girls want a sweet one...they get sick of losers...dont you worry...look for the ones who actually do their homework or have a good job and know about respect...and check horoscope sect for compatability
2006-11-03 09:05:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Women DO want a nice guy. BUT, and here's the biggy. They want a guy who is in control. I bet you say things like, "What would you like to do tonight?" or "Where do you want to go?" or "What do you want to eat?" or "Can I get you something?" or "What time will I pick you up?" Do you see a pattern here? Is that what nice guys do? Women don't want snivelling guys who will cater to their every whim, and most of all, they hate having to make all the decisions. Try this. "I'll pick you up at seven and we'll have dinner at ????." or phone her with, "I'll buy you a coffee at my favourite coffee shop, if you can be ready in an hour." If she says she can't make it or has something else on, accept it. Don't ask questions, like, "What about next Saturday then?" Just say, "OK, I'll catch up with you next week." And leave it at that. My bet is that she will either make other arrangements or phone you back with an alternative time. If so, don't be too eager. Think for a moment and if it suits you, then, "That should be OK. I'll see you at eight." See what's happening? YOU are making the decisions. THAT'S what nice guys do. Try it, you'll be surprised.
2006-11-03 09:30:26 · answer #2 · answered by lorraine m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know? Nearly all women want a guy who treats her with respect, romance and kindness as well as loving her.
I don't know of any women who want a guy who's an a******.
It just so happens that there are very few, if any, nice guys around.
So some settle for whatever they can get because they can't stand to be alone - and others choose to live alone because they can't stand the guys.
2006-11-03 09:05:19 · answer #3 · answered by theophilus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How come you blame women for your shortcomings?
I'm so sick and tired of this question. People in general look for nice people.
Just because it doesn't seem like a woman is with a nice guy does not mean that she's with a sack of shÑt. You're not a part of the relationship so who the hell are you to judge them? He may be the best guy in the world but you're too busy hating on others [because you're a cסck] to notice.
2006-11-03 09:01:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Women are looking for a nice guy, they are NOT looking for a punk. They want to know that they are with a gentlemen who won't disrespect them. A woman also wants to know that when it comes down to it her man will have her back.
2006-11-03 09:06:29 · answer #5 · answered by Me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they want nice, but not a doormat
Some would say that women look for "projects" Men they can change. If you're too docile, what's the fun in that??
2006-11-03 09:03:57 · answer #6 · answered by dantheman_028 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How come men say they are looking for a "nice woman" when they are not?
2006-11-03 09:03:03 · answer #7 · answered by ash 7 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cos nice guys are usually ugly.... that's why they're nice.....they can't treat a girl like s**t and get away with it like good looking guys do....so they have to be nice or they'd never get a chick.
2006-11-03 09:02:38 · answer #8 · answered by Megafunk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That scowling avatar doesn't look very nice. And your generalization of women doesn't sound very nice. Chances are, you are not very nice at all.
2006-11-03 09:02:30 · answer #9 · answered by Emm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We arent, we just happen to leave out the word "looking" in between "nice" & "guy"
2006-11-03 09:02:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same reason why men say they are looking for a virgin over the age of 18, they are very rare birds
2006-11-03 09:03:09 · answer #11 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋