ok thats a big problem!! plz give me some advice for it!!?

Question

ok the problem is: i changed school. and i have found bout 4 new friends in it, without missing to keep in touch with the others. anyway, 2 of my new friends r already best friends. im ok with this. but what gets on my nerves it that they keep keeping secrets and its not what annoys me the most!! the most irritating is that when me and my other friend try to approach them in the break for example, they keep using codes and their own language to communicate as they want us not to listen to their gossip! and ok, they can have secrets but they r really stuck to each other and they seem as they don't care if we exist or not! really is that im not kidding or what!
how to deal with this?? i feel they reject me....and when one of them hasn't come to school one day then the other ( sofia i.e) comes and asks me to do favors and so on, to follow her to see some1 she likes and all this stuff...can u understand??
i feel terrible!! has any1 of u ever similar experience? plz help!!!

could talking to them bout this really help?? coz i fully believe it won't change anything at all!! whats ur opinion?? any good advice?? its very annoying! its like '' here r the 2 of us and we won't any other to our friends list ''! its really upseting!

Answer 1

I have been in your situation, one time after another, but I don't think talking to your two friends will help. Each time I confronted "friends", they let out their true feelings and I had to move on away from them. I accepted this because if they would talk about you like that, then they're not really your friends. Find people who would be open and honest with you; I think you and your other friend should just branch off and become best friends, because if you leave your friend in that group, she'll be next. Just branch off and look for other girls that need friends.

Answer 2

so what if they reject u? find other new friends that has ur back, and doesn't let u drop when u fall