womens bodies do men view our bodies as we do??

Question

ok so even the slimest women in the whole ..have something about their body there not keen on...but do you think men view our bodies in the way we do..eg..if yr stomach isnt toned..this can make you feel very self concious when naked..you think the stomach or untoned bum etc..botheres us more when we are naked..because they belong to us and we are aware of it?? and do men view..our bad bits as we do..or do they view our bodies differently??..i was told once by an old boyfriend that as long as men can get yr arms around you for acuddle!!lol.....theyre not overly.. bothered about the rest..and that a real confident women no matter what her shape..was actually really appealing......hmm..i dont know.. we only ever see our bodies in the mirror or in pictures....where as men..actually get to see it head on!!.....

Answer 1

Someone once told me that by the time a man has you naked he is so intent on what he is doing that he doest even notice what we think are our untoned bits!

Answer 2

The perception of physical beauty has changed many times over the centuries. Greek and Roman sculptures show men very lean and full of muscle, and women sort of pudgy by modern standards. In Victorian times, the VERY thin waist and broad hips was desired even to the point of torturous corsets. WWII had women with large breasts, thin waists, big bums, and wide hips. And on and on and on! Now, the day of the anorexic "clothes hanger" on the fashion run way seems to have faded, and women can look well proportioned without looking like death-camp survivors. But ultimately a mans view of any given woman is entirely subjective. In other words, it's all a matter of individual taste. I should like to think that man has evolved beyond measuring a female only by her physical attributes, but I know that's not true. My best advice to you is, be who you want to be, look like you want to look, and don't ever blame yourself for not being ANY man's ideal of perfection. Be as perfect or imperfect as YOU want to be. The rest will sort itself out quite nicely without any effort on your part! (as long as you are happy, just be YOU!!)

Answer 3

Men view women differently. We look at women in a sexual and sensual way, not whether you're a little plump in the middle or if your boobs aren't just flowing out of your top, or if your booty is too big, or anything like that. We like it all.

I love full figured women anyway, so there's no problem if she is a little overweight. Remember, it's the person and not the looks that attrect most men, myself included.

Answer 4

Being female i shouldn't really be answering this other than to say PIPER was spot on thank you very much for his words. and i think if your confident or appear that way and don't draw attention to any bits your not too happy with then i reckon he wont really notice anyway, lets face the male of the species isn't the most observant!!

Answer 5

Men like women are all different if a guy cares for you.Its not just about the body its the whole package.

Answer 6

That is a good question. i have to agree with piper...That is a very strong point made and uplifting to a lot of women whove read ur comment. Yes u are right...be who we are w/o tring to fit a mode...we are all unique and that how it should BE!!

Answer 7

great question!... i think its different for every guy, some love to judge you by body, but others judge you by YOU. and i believe they do see us differently, and you know that reflections are never right and the camera adds 10lbs and etc etc its different for every one....email me when you find the answer your looking for id love to know

Answer 8

Nah i think guys see it in more of a pass/fail system. if youre hot youre hot if not youre not