she is totally in luv with a this guy! she stalks him, but he definitly isnt interested! she was friends w/ him last yr, but now that he knows that she likes him, he pretty much turned off to her. she still his in luv w/ him and not only does it drive me insane, but also i think the guy is annoyed! what 2 do?
2006-11-03 08:44:58 · 13 answers · asked by Papagena 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Let her go girls tend to take it alittle more personal than guys do.
If you have a guy friend in the same situation his feelings and pride will be a little hurt but better in the end. Your situation leave it alone if you speak for this guy you better have talked to him and know exactly how he feels otherwise it will blow up in your face.
BEST THING LEAVE IT ALONE!
2006-11-03 08:49:55 · answer #1 · answered by Bleed the Freak 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always dangerous to meddle with someone's love life. Try to explain to her that he obviously isn't interested and that her unwanted attention to him under these circumstances is just increasing his lack of interest perhaps to the point of sever annoyance. Suggest that she move on, persisting will not endear her in any way to him. Also draw attention to the fact that stalking is an offence, the guy may take a restraiing order out on her. A successful relationship with anyone takes positive input from both sides. Perhaps you might be able to distract her with another interest, get her to join a club of interest to her where she possibly might meet someone that is attracted to her. If her behaviour persists, she might benefit from a trip to a consellor of some sort.
2006-11-03 16:53:49 · answer #2 · answered by museofmadness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have actually been in this situation before and here is what you should do: get the guy to tell your friend to leave him alone. He should just talk to her for about ten minutes, explaining how it would not work out between them, and then leave. Then you should comfort your friend afterwards because she just got rejected by the guy she loves and she will need conforting.
2006-11-03 16:54:28 · answer #3 · answered by jazzteen13x 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing u can do but be supportive of HER. Be her friend when she needs someone to talk to. Nothing you say is going to change her mind. She needs to find out that he is a jerk on her own. And unfortunately YOU are the one that has to put back her heart with her. But that is a tue friend and it will bond you even closer.
Not something you want to hear but it is reality. If you say anything bad about him, she will be upset with you. So, just listen to her while she goes on and on about him.
Good luck 2 you and your friend.
2006-11-03 16:51:06 · answer #4 · answered by sweetsxyazn2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your friend is weird. She is not totally in love with this guy, because love is a 2 way street. She's in love with who she THINKS he is - and he doesn't exactly sound like the pick of the litter. Perhaps you need to broaden your circle of friends, and leave her to her delusions.
2006-11-03 16:48:55 · answer #5 · answered by theophilus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to your friend that stalking is a crime and to seek professional help as to why she feel she need to behave in such a way that's making her look even more desperate to this young man.
2006-11-03 16:48:46 · answer #6 · answered by pradavee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, of coarse anybody can like somebody and maybe that's what she's suppose to do. She can like him with a limit and maybe that limit is until friends. If she wasn't the guy to be near to her then maybe they could only be friends and not more = )
2006-11-03 17:02:11 · answer #7 · answered by Zashtaquir 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU don't do anything!!! The girl will give up soon or later and realize that it's never gonna happen!!! That's exactly how i stopped.
2006-11-03 16:50:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problum with my friend just be a good honest friend and tell her that it will never work out and sugjest another guy.
2006-11-03 16:48:15 · answer #9 · answered by Jessy D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her no one will be be attracted to someone who acts pathetically.
2006-11-03 16:48:08 · answer #10 · answered by I'm Trying 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋