Tell me what you think?????

Question

Okay, I had a sexual relationship with this guy, and he and I pretty much have the same circle of friends, he's actually really close to all of the people, and sometimes when I would call he would be like say first and last name loudly, and then when i told him that I din't want everyone to know of our realtionship, he's like well, we did have a realtionship, and he even went on to say that he's told some people but then later on said he was just joking...and then threatened me and told me that he would tell everyone of our realtionship...and then have the nerve to smile at me, when I see him around like everything is cool, so my question is why do you think he would do something stupid like this and tell everyone?

Answer 1

Sorry hun, but that sounds like a typical male to me. He wants to be seen as the stud he probably portrays himself to be. It was just sex to him and you neither your feelings are attached to it.

Answer 2

Yes, i have seen such jerks who is even shameless to share the juicy details of an relationship, especially when ur pretty and sought after among your group. You will need some caution while getting through this... but never ever give up to his fantasies and show that you feel threatened by his pranks.. Give a cool smile and make him feel that.. you are not bothered.. ( even if u do so).. Also i just wanna point out that... sex is a feeling and it happens to be shared with someone we feel good to share with. It is not a shame anymore nor a taboo worth to be a blackmail prank. He should very well respect your relationship nor its not worth to be continued any further..

Regards../
PeppR

Answer 3

My question is....... why are you doing something stupid like this and having this "sexual relationship" with your friend without wanting anyone to know about it?

Answer 4

I agree with grasshop.

Answer 5

he is proud to have you as his girlfriend. why would you not be?