when i come home from campus, i found hair on my bed. long hair...it's not mine. next day, he use my car, i found same hair in my car. he said that he don't know.
do you think he is liar ?
2006-11-03 08:39:26 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, he's lying. If it's long hair, it could be another woman.
2006-11-03 08:41:54 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So sorry to hear that. Hair in the car is bad enough, but might be able to be explained. But the same hair in the bed!!! is not acceptable.
Hair in the bed is showing that he does not respect you, and he doesn't even try to take his other woman to a hotel or even to her own bed.
Why did he not go with this woman to her own bed? I have to think that he WANTED you to find the hair in the bed. It could be that he is too much of a coward to tell you himself that he wants to end the relationship. Hence, the hair in the car and the bed. Even when you confront him about this, he still can't admit that the other hair didn't just get feet and walk to the bed. Now you must ask yourself this painful question: Why does he stay? Is it cheaper for him to stay? Is he also a student? If he does not live with you, where will he live? He might just want to stay because he can't afford to live somewhere else. Sorry to say this.
Check the boot of the car, and you might find other things as well.
I already experienced this humiliation. I would confront him again about what you found, and end the relationship. Respect yourself even if he doesn't. Remember: Different hair does not get feet and walk to your bed!
Sorry to hear that you have experienced this. I really feel your pain. Be strong, be brave, and never accept or let any man treat you as rubbish!
2006-11-06 17:44:32 · answer #2 · answered by Emitrav 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, the hair in the bed is pretty much a dead give away provided there is no plausible explanation. If the hair in the car is a match, then you have not only a cheater, but a bold one... Act like it never happened and come home unannounced when you think the time is right and catch the liar in the act, scream at him for giving you herpes (even though you don't have it) and slam the door on the way out of the house. You will ruin his fun that day and he will have to explain the herpes thing to his slutty girlfriend...
2006-11-03 08:49:40 · answer #3 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bin if you have the money then it is time to go see a private investigator. I have a very strong feeling he is cheating on you. How can there be long hair in your car and especially on your bed and he not know where it came from. Unless if his best buddy is allowed to use the both of your bed when you are away. And if it were nothing at all then why hide this (female) friend from you. See if the hair is the same as what is on the bed and it is time to check out pricing for some one to take pics and spy on your husband. Then when you have the info then it is time to go to the lawyers office for a divorce. A lot of states call it Neglect of marriage ,,,,,,, This is only going to get worse and worse. And if this girl (that he is cheating with) is leaving hair all over the place then she wants him to get caught and what is worse ,,,,,,,she doesnt care about your heart she only cares about herself. Honey i am sorry ,,,,,,,, But Get Rid Of Him. This is a very sensitive subject. Good Luck.
2006-11-03 09:14:30 · answer #4 · answered by Ann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, hair in bed and car identical, that's pretty much a give away. If swears he doesn't know, and you just don't feel like wasting your time, leave him. Once a liar always a liar. If he's worth the headache, follow him.
2006-11-03 08:42:48 · answer #5 · answered by bre714 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ignore the signs but don't go off the deep end YET either.
Is it possible he drug it home from sitting on a chair or something? I shed like a freaking dog (I promise, it's not mine though lol...) and my friends will have my hair in their car and I haven't even been in it!!! It's just from being around me, sitting in my chair at work etc...
If you really and truly think he's cheating and REALLY want to know. Do some snooping, you'll find the answers you need.
2006-11-03 08:45:29 · answer #6 · answered by Heather S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's a lie. The same hair was found in two different locations - one being your bed???? Are you married to this man?
2006-11-03 08:44:38 · answer #7 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. Your BED, that is pretty obvious. Not sure how some womans hair gets in a bed, without anyone knowing her. Hmmmmm
2006-11-03 08:58:24 · answer #8 · answered by Carey L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be dreesing up like a girl when you are not around (wig).
A friend of mine got caught with a bunch of panties and his wife thought he was cheating. Come to find out he had a fetish, he was turned on wearing them. No sh.it, this is true....You never know a person completely.
2006-11-03 08:54:42 · answer #9 · answered by aubreytaegan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a nanny cam. And then act like nothing is wrong and let him forget you even asked. Set it up when you leave again or suspect something is happening. Then you will be sure.
2006-11-03 08:56:36 · answer #10 · answered by drkstr1973 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋