What should i do when by best freind is a lesbian?

Question

She wants to do me.Please HELP!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

Just tell her that you don't swing that way.

It's not really that hard to be honest, is it?

Answer 2

If you are "not" gay, and this "friend" won't stop bothering you about "her" preference, she's not really your friend! I have had friends that are gay, but they respected me enough not to gag "me" with what they do. Why would you have a hard time telling her "no?" I have also known a few gay people that "wouldn't" take no for an answer, and I told them to bend over backwards and kiss their own a - -! It's up to you what you want to do, no one here can decide that "for" you, so I don't see what the problem is. Is she that important to you that you can't live without her friendship? If so, tell her NO, you're not interested, but if she keeps on insisting she wants you, the friendship is over.

Answer 3

Ok. So much fo being your "best friend." You come online begging for "HELP."


Ok, if your friend is gay/lesbian, you can't DO anything about it. You have to face the facts and get on with life. It shouldn't make your relationship with that person worse.

And as far as "wanting to do you" I'm pretty sure it's not completely like that, but you can always talk to her. be nice about it though. and don't blow up in her face. She's not any "unnatural" because she has different likes.

Answer 4

After making sure she knows you aren't interested (if you aren't interested), ask yourself why this is such a big deal to you. Sounds like you may have other items you're actually concerned about if this scares you so much.

Think of it as if it was a male friend making a pass at you. If you didn't feel the same way, you'd let him know, right? Then you'd ask if you were both OK to be friends... right?

Answer 5

Just tell her you aren't lesbian and that you don't have any desire to try it. Tell her it's OK with you if she is, but politely ask her to leave you out of it. If she's really your friend she'll respect your wishes. If she doesn't it probably means she is only your friend in hopes of getting "it" off you.

I seem to be seeing a lot of people who claim to be lesbian these days, but I really think a lot of it is a fad thing. They are only into it for the shock factor. And because they think "different is cool".

Answer 6

Be firm in telling her that you don't want to. And tell her as soon as possible. The longer you wait, the more these feelings she has for you could grow. You have to make sure that she understands that you are not a lesbian and are not interested in her at all.

Answer 7

It should be handled just like you would if she were a guy. Just tell her you aren't interested in her that way but you would like to remain friends. Who knows maybe somewhere down the line you could develope a relationship with her like you never thought you would.

Answer 8

You have to be honest with her and tell her you are not interested in that lifestyle but still want to be friends. If she cares about you at all she will respect your wishes, if she doesn't respect them and still continues to hound you, walk away, she isn't really a friend at that point.

Answer 9

Well just tell her, that you love her, but not in that way. It's probably going to be weird between you 2 for a while, but if you are both true friends, it won't matter.

Answer 10

Say "no thank you." If she needs an explanation, tell her that you find sex with the same gender as unpleasant as she finds sex with the opposite gender. You're her friend and that's all you'll ever be, and you'd appreciate her respecting that.

Answer 11

have a sleepover and have some fun!

If i had a friend that was a les, i would have a lil fun with her even tho' im str8! ONLY if she wouldnt tell everyone!!