HEY PEOPLE, IT DID NOT WORK, Will she come back ?

Question

Well, well, well. It seems as if my ol' online girlfriend has call
it quits. We spoke on the net for 8 months. A 3 hour phone call, at best. That went swell. Then she went back to her ex boyfriend,
after I told her I was closing the door on my ex girlfriend. No email
for 2 weeks. She comes back and says that we should just be friends. But today, she ended it with me completely, and blames
me for being a user, and a teaser. (Hypocrite right). So now
she is upset and supposedly moved with her life, after a long
self pity email, filled with f-bombs. Then she said goodbye to me.
We have never met, note. I seen her face on pic, but she has never, seen me. Do you think she will come back ? At the end
of one of her recent letters she wrote, remember you said you
will always be my friend. Today, I told her unless she gets her
mind right, I will have to move on and date other girls. Do you think
she will come back ? That is the question.

She claims to be in love with her exboyfriend. And then reveals, after all this long time, she does not want to marry him". After all, and doesn't have any love
towards him, when he is not around. HMMMMMM. What do you think, will she come back to me, via email ?

Answer 1

just move on.

Answer 2

Hi,

First, you have to remember the two of you never met. As, a girl/woman I know that you can get tired of just e-mails and a few phone calls. We like guys we can hold hand hands with and kiss and go to parties together. I once dated a guy basically through the computer for a year and a half. We talked on the phone every night and I would get to see him occassionally on the weekends. He also said we would also be friends forever. But when it came down to it I needed more than what he was able to give. I met another guy (who is my husband now) and he got very angry and we no longer speak. No she will probably not come back, but take everything you guys had together and learn from it. Also, try to find someone you live near that relationship will probably go a bit better. You can not blame her for wanting it to be over. She needs more and so do you.

Answer 3

I think that you were being led astray here. She clearly wasn't all that keen on you and probabley because she never met you in person and this is usually important for women when choosing a man and why I really beleive that these on=line dating sites are so faulty because there are so many people ready to befriend you but because they are lonley, but you never get to see what they are like in person.

I met three guys through these dating sites who seemed so lovely but when I met each of them over time, they all had completley different intentions. So many people are still in relationships that go on these sites and have no intentions of forming relationships so it is a very big risk.

I am sorry that she let you down like this but I think moving on from her would be my best advice. You had a lucky escape because if she had have hooked up with you, then would she have left her boyfriend anyway?. Live and learn and meet girls naturally so you can get to know them more in a natural way and this will eventually get you the kind of girl you want in your life, not someone who you hardly know and then get dumpted like this again.

It is unlikely that she will come back and likely that when things go wrong in her relationship with her boyfriend again, she will strike up other rapports with other men on line. Not all men and women will do this, but I would strongly advice meeting people the more natural way. People have gone on these sites and end up like you do and then they learn and start to meet people they can at least see in the flesh and get to know and have the power to dump them if things don't work out.

Your results will be far more successful meeting someone in the flesh! - it works out far better that way than on line and many successful relationships work out because they are off line.

Answer 4

Get over her, i'm sorry to say she was probably using you. Why I don't know. To be honest how can anyone on here comment without the full picture? Speaking of pictures how do you know that was her in the picture?

Think of it as a lucky escape - maybe a nutter, maybe a man! (I'm no homophobe - just saying!!)

Answer 5

My goodness, can it actually be called a relationship? Anyways, how do you know she wasn't dating him all along if you guys never met? I say, brother,you are way too trusting.

Get over her, she's not worth it, maybe you should go out more often & meet "real nice" people.

Answer 6

First there was never any type of real meaning to your relationship with her to begin with. you knew her Via cyberspace as did she you. Move on and find and get up from behind the computer screen and interact with other people. that is where you find tru meaning to any kind of relationship.

Answer 7

Hi brother you are wasting you time, how can you be in love with someone u've never seen before.

use you heard, she is never going to come back so move on and find someone real.

Answer 8

OK, you had an on-line girlfriend who you never met, she goes back to her boyfriend...sounds like you got played and she had the boyfriend all along, and now she is done playing with you...I don't see why you would want her to come back...

Answer 9

Forget her it was not a proper relationship meet people in the flesh and have a good time.

Answer 10

I don't think she will, come back I mean. Besides, its better to have loved and lost than not to have loved at all.

Answer 11

Sad, but move on. It hurts, but, in the end you will understand. good luck.