i h8 myself im ugly stressy my brother says im fat i hav skin problems inm scared watigunna do theother day i punched a wall several times and almost broke my knuckles HELP ME!!!! im 13 im scared of myself
2006-11-03 08:19:25 · 10 answers · asked by kt 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
anouther thingis the things others say andiget upset and imbarised
2006-11-03 08:36:58 · update #1
Honey it's just PUBERTY! It passes! You have to feel this way in order to grow as a person. Love yourself for who you are, not what you look like. I didn't have a sibling, but your brother sounds like a jerk and the best way to get back at people that say mean things about you is to ignore them (THEY HATE THAT, trust me).
I was an ugly duckling in when I was your age, I was overweight, short, had crooked teeth, oily skin, it sucked, but I grew up, got braces, worked out, and took care of myself, and now I'm dating my High school crush. YOU WILL GET PAST THIS. It will take time. You are young! Have fun! Read, write in a journal, take up a sport.... keep yourself occupied. I promise it will get better.
2006-11-03 09:01:06 · answer #1 · answered by Tracey 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Hey, you have to know just about everyone goes through feeling like this at times. You must believe me when I say it will get better. If you are 13, your body is changing in lots of ways as you are growing up, and one of the first things that happens is your skin breaks out. There are creams and such you can get for it, but the best thing to do is to keep your skin clean. If you go on feeling angry and scared you must talk to someone. If you can't talk to your family, then ask a teacher you trust or a guidance counsellor at school. Share your feelings and it will make it easier to cope with them. Please understand you're not alone in this. Ask for help, and you will find it will get better for you. Stay safe, you are very precious in this world.
2006-11-03 08:32:17 · answer #2 · answered by ladybird 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're probably just reaching puberty and going through hormonal changes. Weight gain, skin problems and emotional issues are all tied in with getting older and 13 is certainly the right time for all that to start happening. You're a teenager now and that's pretty common. It'll pass with time and don't worry things can be done to help your skin problem and weight gain can be helped by good diet and exercise. Try not to get too upset, you'll get through it but if you do get really upset know that it is common for teenagers to go through rough patches.
If you are really concerned about yourself, talk to your parents or another adult who can help you. Maybe they can get you a psychologist who will help you talk out your feelings.
2006-11-03 09:16:54 · answer #3 · answered by Des Demona 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
oh i went through a stage when i was about 14.. i didnt hate myself but i hated everyone else and was just out of control. it passed. now about a year ago i was getting depressed and purposely finding everything i could wrong with me and hating myself. u need to keep thinking positive thoughts and those negative ones will go away. start by ignoring your brothers comments, eating better foods and working out or staying active, and hunnie you are a teenager.. your skin will get better in time!
2006-11-03 09:04:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have problems, you cant ask for much advice you either have to deal with it yourself and smoke a blunt, or go see a phyciatrist. You might need medication if your not on any right now, but its not exactly a good idea to shout out to the world how depressed,ugly, and fat you are because your not going to get any attention, or better advice then this.
2006-11-03 08:28:03 · answer #5 · answered by Alex Savager 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Don't worry, don't panic, nobody is perfect... in your case u think your fat... soo..it s not the end of the world... and the most important thing is don't hurt yourself by other thoughts, just think about your qualities... what the others are saying, its not ur concern. Just think in this way, ud feel better. Be proud of who you are, and work on it what you want to be...good luck.
2006-11-03 08:27:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It'll get worse before it'll get better, but it will get better.
uhh, don't worry it may not get worse...those are just some lyrics I found fitting.
Good luck....pray pray pray!!!
2006-11-03 08:54:55 · answer #7 · answered by Scoot 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont hate urself!! things will get better soon!! trust me! besides, God made u in his own imgae, and he made u perectly! and dont fret, like will get better!!
2006-11-03 08:26:24 · answer #8 · answered by Papagena 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u dont hate ur self,u r just unconfident
2006-11-03 10:14:40 · answer #9 · answered by Tara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wooow, you need to get to the Dr. right away
2006-11-03 08:26:55 · answer #10 · answered by graciegirl 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋