i h8 myself im ugly stressy my brother says im fat i hav skin problems inm scared watigunna do theother day i punched a wall several times and almost broke my knuckles HELP ME!!!!
2006-11-03 08:02:30 · 12 answers · asked by kt 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
im13 i just want some advise plz im scared ofmyself im always crying
2006-11-03 08:09:23 · update #1
anouther thingis the things others say andiget upset and imbarised
2006-11-03 08:38:41 · update #2
Sweety CALM DOWN!!! Your not gonna feel this way forever!! I promise!!! When I was a kid, I swear I was so dang dorkie! My sisters told me the same crap like I was fat and ugly and blah blah blah. They are just being siblings and they will eat thier words. I turned out beautiful if I do say so myself. Get some stuff for your skin. Start working out and I promise you will start feeling better about yourself in no time. Just give it a week or two of working out or walking and that will help ya!!! Also you can start looking at you self and thinking about new ways to dress or to wear your hair. But I gotta tell ya, if you think your ugly and you keep beating yourself up over what others think...you will never be happy.
2006-11-03 08:09:01 · answer #1 · answered by clawbeaja 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I bet you're beautiful....I wrote a post earlier saying that I thought I was fat because I weighed 120 pounds and I'm 5'5 at 14... Am I retarted... Sure we all have pimples, it's part of being a teen...
Get used to it.... Look I hate it, some people have better skin than others but look we are all beautiful.. And think how vain you becoming....
I think you need to find a sport of activity that you shine in, then you'll start getting praise and won't be hurt by a look at the mirror and check on the scale or even a brothers words. Chances are when you feel better about yourself you will lose weight, and your pimples will clear up.. Get some cream, and wash your face everyday and every night... And get into a sport they'll help you lose weight.. And do yoga every day!!! It works!!!
Karina!
I bet you're beautiful!
2006-11-03 18:53:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is get some volunteer work. Go and work at a hospice for a couple of hours after school or at weekends. That will sort you out. It will bring reality to you and you'll see that the stuff that bothers you now won't be important anymore.
Everyone is special. Everyone. You must believe that you are. If you don't feel worthwhile, then do something worthwhile until you do. Good luck lovely.
2006-11-03 16:18:34 · answer #3 · answered by Susie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust me my brother does that to me ALL the time.He only does it cause he knows it makes me mad and that's basically his goal in life. So I figured out that if you ignore it he just goes away!
And for the feeling ugly/fat/blah. I think everybody has those days. Maybe you could see if you could get some new clothes try a new hairstyle, paint your nails, try new makeup, give your self a facial. It should help you feel prettier. And for the skin problems maybe ask your mom or dad if you could go to a Dermotologist. That's a doctor for skin. Hope I helped!
If you ever need to talk my e-mail is Mandapanda1293@yahoo.com
2006-11-03 21:17:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont think ur avatar is ugly, if u look like that
DONT LISTEN 2 UR BROTHER my sister is a pain and heres the worst part about it- shes 12 (im 13) taller and thinner than me (it really sucks) and just to add to that i have to wear a dress at the end of thias year for graduation...thats gonna make me look horrible!
but heres the thing...people 10 years later are not gonna care that i wore a dress that didnt look to good on me they know im fun to be around and stuff thats the way i look at it
i would give my email 2 u but icant cuz my parent will not be happy but u can give ur email, i promise that im not a creep and this is true so ill check in later to see if u added anything
wish u luck
2006-11-03 16:24:38 · answer #5 · answered by jenhockey24 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to adolescence my dear, we all went through it. It's called the "ugly duckling" stage. Brothers are mean anyway. Try working out to get in shape, get cleanser fir your face, build your self esteem by telling your self you ARE beautiful inside AND out, and let go of the negative responses in your life!!! E- mail me if you ever need to talk! purpledragonflyjrh@yahoo
2006-11-03 16:12:29 · answer #6 · answered by purpledragonflyjrh 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to adolescence my friend, I'm going trough it. It's called the "ugly duckling" stage. Brothers are mean anyway. Try working out to get in shape, get cleanser for your face, build your self esteem by telling your self you ARE beautiful inside AND out, and let go of the negative responses in your life!!! E- mail me if you ever need to talk! love2kiss52@yahoo
2006-11-03 16:22:27 · answer #7 · answered by deniseg1993 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Check yourself into a psychiatric hospital or have a relative help you get in one.
2006-11-04 07:06:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to hit the wall harder. As HARD as you can until the wall breaks or your knuckles. After doing this you should experience a catharsis of change. Good luck!!
2006-11-03 16:05:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
well what do u want us 2 do???( no sarcasm)
u can email me at meanie_straw@yahoo.com
if u want 2 talk
have a great day!:)
2006-11-03 16:05:32 · answer #10 · answered by dana 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋