In fact the hitter won't even bring it up and the spouse who was hit won't talk to the other. Don't you think the hitter should apologize? What should the one who was hit do?
2006-11-03 07:52:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Now that i got a few answers I wanted to add. The wife hit the husband. He wasn't hurt really and he is certainly not afriad but it is the fact that the hit was out of the blue, out of anger and no displayed remorse.
2006-11-03 09:13:04 · update #1
A married couple arguing(screaming, ranting and raving) nose to nose are BOTH equally wrong. The hitting is just frosting on the wrongness. An apology is immaterial. Finding a way to handle disagreements without nose to nose confrontations, is what you should concentrate on.
2006-11-03 09:05:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all there should be no hitting period! The person who hit probably does not believe they did anything wrong. The person who was hit needs to think about is this the first time or have they been hit before. Either way it is abuse. And they need to leave. If it is the first time they need to make sure it is the last time, because if the hitter thinks they can get away with that there is no telling how far they would go.
2006-11-03 16:01:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the hell out of this physically abusive relationship. The hitter crossed the line (guy or girl). You don't hit someone you love. If they are able to backhand you now, what will happen in the next fight? They need anger management. But yes, the one who was hit needs to leave and go somewhere away from the hitter - where they are safe.
2006-11-03 16:51:05 · answer #3 · answered by Carey L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter if the hitter apologizes or not. The bottom line is, if they hit once they will hit again. Whomever was hit needs to get the courage to leave. Don't wait to discuss it. Just leave. Anger management sounds like it may be needed as well.
2006-11-03 16:03:30 · answer #4 · answered by bttrfly0724 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The "hittee" deserves more than an apology. This is a wake-up call and behavior that should not be accepted. They both need to get counseling. This could easily escalate in to domestic violence and could be interpreted as such now.
2006-11-03 16:04:27 · answer #5 · answered by smecky809042003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest the one thatwas hit should leave the realtionship, becausethings are pretty bad if your hitting each other. The person that did hit the other person should say sorry but things have to be prettybad when you hitting so i WOULD LEAVE IT WILL ONLY GET WORSE
2006-11-03 16:09:28 · answer #6 · answered by Shanana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the POLICE. GET RESTRAINIG ORDER. ONCE in THIS kind of PROBLEM ALways WIll BE if You DON'T STOP IT NOW...
2006-11-03 16:00:53 · answer #7 · answered by Shortcake r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the police. get a restraining order. get a divorce.
2006-11-03 15:58:21 · answer #8 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋