I have been best friends with this girl who lives in my neighborhood for really longtime and usually I am not the jealous type. But theres this girl whose everything that I'm not and when the end of the day hits I am being the third wheel. After school I wait for her thinking that one day she'll do the same, but everyday she walks right passed me and hangs out with her. And I just want to rip her head off. Should I get revenge and make her jealous or do I just tell her how I feel when it comes to the girl? I don't know what to do. Please HELP
2006-11-03 07:24:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sometimes you can lose that person if you do tell them how you feel
2006-11-03 07:50:56 · update #1
Come right out and tell her how you feel. She'll probably just blow you off at first, but you will end up haunting her. I also suggest hanging out with other people. Good Luck!
2006-11-03 07:27:49 · answer #1 · answered by S. Elizabeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same exact thing happened to me. It really stinks when this happens. Trust me, I know how you feel. In my old neighborhood, there was this girl named Ashley. Me and Ashley were "BFF's" for 8 WHOLE years. Then, about a couple months later, another girl came along named Lindsay. Lindsay was "everything that I wasn't" too. She had the perfect skin and the perfect hair. Ashley and her seemed to good to be true with eachother. They would have sooo much fun together. I was SOOO jealous about the whole situation. Lindsay and I HATED eachother. When Lindsay and Ashley would have sleepovers, Lindsay would call ME and tell me ALL about it. But the problem was, I NEVER told Ashley how I felt. So, I think that you should tell your friend how you feel.
2006-11-03 07:38:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like she cares how you feel. Find more friends to spend time with and have fun. That's the best revenge.
2006-11-03 07:29:27 · answer #3 · answered by grrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best policy is be honest with ur friend and if ur friendship means anything she will want to fix things if not dont worry about it cuz then she prob wasnt a true friend
2006-11-03 07:28:38 · answer #4 · answered by the machine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Piece of advice. If you want to continue to be her friend then NO REVENGE. Revenge is not how you make/keep freinds. Talk to her about it.
2006-11-03 07:28:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest. I've been in the same situation...She'll blow you off at fist but then she'll realize what shes missing when she starts to think...
2006-11-03 07:47:30 · answer #6 · answered by indianschick24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what must be done , release your anger! have no mercy!
no rly talk to her, and remember the girl is in the same position she is nothing of what you are
2006-11-03 07:28:32 · answer #7 · answered by Snow surfer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find yourself a new friend y do u wanna continue being friends with someone who ignores you to hang out with someone else?
2006-11-03 07:43:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that aint ur bestfreind. if u she gonna treat u like that,then u shouldnt be there for her.thats not right for u.move on and get new best freinds.
2006-11-03 07:57:27 · answer #9 · answered by *~Love?~* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just finds somebody else who would be your friend and tell her that you really wish that she would be there for you and not try to be somebody else . or don't be someone if you don't want no one to know about you and yor old friend
2006-11-03 07:33:32 · answer #10 · answered by shanikka k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋