is upset that my rent is due and he doesnt get paid untill monday he said he would ask his mother for the remainderof the money i needed for rent which is only 80.00 bucks then when i asked him again he said he doesnt have the money and gets mad that he cant get cable cause we are on a bugget and cant afford it right now ,plus he been promising my wedding ring since we got married in july , i said forget the ring my rent needs to be payed then he hung the phone up on me . should i feel bad??
2006-11-03 07:03:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You both need to go to church and start reading the Word of God.
The Lord restored my marriage and it is great now.
So don't allow satan to come in and destroy. Ask Jesus in your heart.
A good book to read is "Power of a Praying Woman" by Stormie Omartian. Very Good.
The good Lord has a good plan for you & your hubby.
Think positive.
Jeremiah 29:11-13
11 For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. 12 Then you will call upon me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. 13 You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart.
God Bless!
2006-11-03 07:09:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Maybe he is really frustrated because he just can't seem to make ends meet. It is a frustrating situation. However, he should not take it out on you either because you are in the situation together. Sometimes, it is the little things that destroys a relationship. I hate when someone hangs up on me for no good reason. That is so disrespectful. You have a right to feel badly. However, try not to push him about things since he is so frustrated. Just let him know what is due and leave it alone. Maybe he will be able to somehow figure out things. When a person feels pressured, then they can not think clearly and would have a more difficult time figuring out what to do. I sure hope things will get better. Just pray and leave it in God's hands. He will work it all out. I know he did for me many times. All the best to you and your husband.
2006-11-03 15:35:59 · answer #2 · answered by killerlegs 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, hubby gets mad cause he can't have cable when the rent is due. Not to mention that your married and you don't even have a ring. Umm sure you can feel bad that you can't give him what he wants. But the reality is that this is life, want lots but have to work on a budget.
I am not sure what the situation his exactly but you can barely afford to live now with out living off of credit or loans. Learn to budget better and tell hubby to grow up.
2006-11-03 15:14:12 · answer #3 · answered by SRC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you two really need to sit down and rework that budget. And don't say "forget the ring". all you are implying is that he can't make it as a man.
look, i'm broke as well. my husband tries so hard to make me happy. we are trying to move out now that we have a baby coming. we can't afford extra expenses. not even the wedding ring. but he got one anyway. i have a tinge of regret because that new expense might make another goal harder to acheive, but i won't make my man upset by commenting on it. becuase i know he did it with love. and somewhere in the end, it will work out. and you used the word "my rent". doesn't he live there too?
2006-11-03 15:12:04 · answer #4 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't feel bad. You make perfect sense and are dealing with the realities of your life and financial situation. Sorry to say but hubby needs to grow up a little and face reality. We don't always get what we want, when we want it. He's probably frustrated about the whole situation as well and maybe hearing you talk about the ring made him feel bad that he hasn't been able to get you one yet?? Anyway, don't feel bad. I don't think you did anything wrong. Good Luck.
2006-11-03 15:10:59 · answer #5 · answered by Super-Mom9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that's his responsibility as well. I also can't believe you haven't gotten a ring yet and you re already married. It sounds like your Husband needs to shape up and take responsibility and be a man. (Sorry) You shouldn't feel bad, plus you should have got the ring when you first got married!!! Good Luck!!!
2006-11-03 15:13:49 · answer #6 · answered by Yahoo Anwers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a lot of issues in your marraige- money is not the only problem here. The only way to fix this marraige is for the 2 you to realize you're a team, get the same goals, and act like a team.
2006-11-03 15:07:53 · answer #7 · answered by lady Ironhair 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move out of your trailer park and get a real man that can provide you with basic things like rent and food.
If he doesnt then maybe its better for you to be alone.
2006-11-03 15:54:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You say "your husband" and "your rent" are you seperated or divorced? If so, is he obligated to pay your rent? Does he owe alimony or child support?
Do you work? Maybe you should move to a more affordable apt/house.
2006-11-03 15:09:15 · answer #9 · answered by grrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to kick him in the *** and get him back on track. Good luck Sweetie.
2006-11-03 15:06:14 · answer #10 · answered by Skullsoda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋