he said he would b happy but not now
the problem is that he will be moving to another state soon
and i want to get pregnant nnow before he goes
we dont use condoms but he always pulls out before he ejaculates
so i ask,how can i get pregnant by him?
2006-11-03 07:02:06 · 16 answers · asked by MS G 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
actually he wants a baby and i want to have the baby....
i wouldnt mind if he left i like babies
2006-11-03 07:11:58 · update #1
you should not try and trap a guy into conceiving a child , more then likely if you do he will still leave state and you will be a single mom. children do not secure a relationship!!
2006-11-03 07:04:47 · answer #1 · answered by lisamarie7901 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. He says he will be happy to have a baby with you, but not now. He's not ready and it's not right for you to try to trick him into it. You need to work out the problem of him moving. Why is he moving. Are you able to move to the same state? You should work all these things out before you try to have a baby. Are you thinking that if you get pregnant he won't move? You better think twice about that because this plan will just backfire on you and you'll end up either alone with your baby, or with a guy who resents you for trapping him with a child.
2006-11-03 15:11:12 · answer #2 · answered by kat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he isn't ready, then I don't think you should try....
Are you trying to get him to stay with you and not move? Using a baby to do that is not good......
You guys should work out things between you before you will be ready to have a baby together. And if you do get pregnant, are you ready to be a single parent?
2006-11-03 15:06:16 · answer #3 · answered by mrs. ruspee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want advise on how to get prego by him if he isnt ready? Its not fair for you to push the issue behind his back, the guy isnt ready, leave it at that, if you push then he may retaliate and leave you and your baby. Take time, babys cant just be thrown away when you feel like not having it anymore, after you and him arent together. Best of luck to you, just dont push the issue, motherhood isnt as easy as it seems!
2006-11-03 15:05:50 · answer #4 · answered by Mom 2 Twins + One 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a terrible idea. He has made it clear to you that he does not want a baby right now and trapping him is very deceitful and mean. You need to respect his wishes. If you truly love him you would not manipulate him into staying with you. If you guys are meant to be you will be together even though he is moving.
2006-11-03 15:13:13 · answer #5 · answered by ShanaJ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im telling you right now, the dumbest thing you will ever do in your life is try to get pregnant before your boyfriend moves away.. take some time and think about that logically and you'll see how little sense that makes. why do you want that? so he will move back? so you can move with him? you really dont need to be a single, unwed mother. why not get married, buy a home together , etc, first?
2006-11-03 15:08:23 · answer #6 · answered by Mina222 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he's not ready, he will resent you if you try to get pregnant. Just wait if you can. You should want the father of your baby to be there throughout your pregnancy. It's so much better that way.
2006-11-03 15:06:03 · answer #7 · answered by Caelan's mom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are SICK and twisted.
Spare the child. Don't have a baby in this circumstance.
Spare the poor guy. He clearly doesn't want a child now. Grow up!
2006-11-03 18:28:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is not ready to be a dad yet it is really selfish of you to try to trick him and get pregnant behind his back. All this will do is cause him to not trust you.
2006-11-03 15:05:15 · answer #9 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with what lisa s said. but if your really intent on it.... get him dirty drunk and sleep with him. but remeber that by doing this your trapping the guy and that is not fair to you him or the baby. good luck
2006-11-03 15:06:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋