2006-11-03 06:55:48 · 31 answers · asked by jstacyloaiza 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It means he wants to get into the dating scene. Take care of it before it's too late.
2006-11-03 06:59:13 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
It means just what it says, that he logged onto to it. Which means he went to that site. It doesn't mean that he did anything while he was there, so to assume otherwise without knowing more is just jumping to conclusions.
If you are asking because you see a web address for a dating service as part of the log of addresses he accessed, then that doesn't tell you anything. If that is all you're going on, then he could have clicked on a pop up ad while visiting another site, either purposefully or accidentally.
2006-11-03 15:06:29 · answer #2 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Well the best thing to do is ask him that question. It could mean many things. If your husband deals with a lot of clients that come from out of town he could be looking for a one night or weekend dates to accommodate his clients and make points with them by doing so. Maybe he has a friend that he is trying to help find a suitable potential wife for. Or perhaps he has been asked by a friend to search the dating services to find out if their wife or child is among those listed there. Never assume the worse just be prepared for it. If your husband has always been honest with you and the two of you have an open and honest communication between you then ask him and explain to him what it looks like and if he is trying to help someone offer to help with the search but don't be to surprised if you're not all that successful.
Matchmaking is one of the oldest professions in the world and used to be highly regarded as Honourable. My own husband use to get on those dating services to find a suitable companion for my son. Of coarse the Internet is not very reliable because to many people lie about themselves so my husband gave up the idea. But I couldn't fault him for trying to help someone.
2006-11-03 15:30:33 · answer #3 · answered by Warrior 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Well it means that he visited a dating site, filled out some type of profile and then he was given a login id and password. He then used that id and password and logged into the site.
2006-11-03 14:58:39 · answer #4 · answered by Allinwiththenuts 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It means your husband is dating other women.
That shouldn't be a problem as long as you don't mind him contacting, flirting with, wining & dining, making out with, and screwing other women - then coming home to you to wipe his sh*t-covered boots all over your face as long as you let this go on.
Confront him at once. Tell him either his days of dating other women are over - that's what "married" means in case he needs some educational reminders there - or he can go back to dating - without you around to be constantly lied to, betrayed, and treated with zero respect.
Oh and don't let him elevate *how* you found out to the same level of 'crime' that his infidelity is.
2006-11-03 15:14:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Something is not right in your marriage. It is not your fault or his fault. It is a probelm that YOU BOTH have to work out. If he is cheating on there is always a reason. Unless he is just a plain dog, in that case you have only one real good choice. Otherwise you have to BOTH work on your marriage.
2006-11-06 15:40:57 · answer #6 · answered by mc00008 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That means it is time for a divorce, he is obviously trying to sneak behind your back and find other woman. I mean what do you think it means he is bored? Confront him and let him give you the lame excuse of it was an accident, but then ask to see the account profile he created. If he won't sign on then there's your answer..
2006-11-03 15:09:20 · answer #7 · answered by melissa052572 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Okay it doesn't nessasarily mean that he IS going to cheat on you but it does meant that he is considering it. He may be testing the waters to see whats out there. The truth of the matter is weather he cheats or not he is not happy in your relationship and something has to be done.
good luck!
2006-11-03 15:00:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
He is just being a guy hoping to catch glimpses of some hot girls and perhaps fantasize about them. If he does more than that, it spell trouble. In either case, you should confront him about it. Don'e be aggressive but be sad and pout a lot. Ask him to give explanations. That should provide you the clues for your future action.
2006-11-03 15:02:24 · answer #9 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
What would you be doing on a dating service website? Would it be harmless? Have you tried ASKING him? Sort through what's real and what's emotion in your mind, and ask. Notice I didn't say confront.
2006-11-03 15:22:27 · answer #10 · answered by SharlaCR 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋