while giving a bj, im usually a swallower than a spitter, and at times, it can get much. can guys control?
2006-11-03 06:39:45 · 14 answers · asked by Hayley B 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
I don't think they can... I mean once they (the males) reach a certian peak, it's kind of difficult to shut it off or try to contain it.
My hubby has experimented alot with these things. He has told me there's a way to help limit the aftermath (i.e. ejaculation) but it doesn't work 100% since it's not possible to prevent an ejaculation once it has begun. Well there are ways, yes, but it isn't easy. It takes concentration, dicipline, and effort, as well as time to experiment.
Basically my hubby can try to reduce his already massively powerful ejaculations to something a little more "normal", although even his so-called "softer" orgasms, he ejaculates much more than all men I've ever seen (except some older Peter North p*rn when he was in his prime).
So unless a guy has found a way to actually control the amount and volume he ejaculates, I still think men do not have dirrect control over their ejaculations... At least not in terms of controlling the volume and quantity!
2006-11-03 07:25:59 · answer #1 · answered by ButtahChick (ButterChick) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would any guy want to "hold back" some of his ejaculate? No, I don't think any guy out there can control how much we produce. The more frequently we ejaculate then there will be less produced each time, but that's controlled by out testicles and prostate outputs. I know that I can't hold back any. It just wants to escape....all of it!
2006-11-03 17:03:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
congrats on swallowing. Is it the taste you dont like? If so, tell him to eat more citrus fruits, such as oranges and tangerines. My gf tells me that when I eat oranges, my c*m tastes great, and she gets
excited about it. But if I've been drinking or eating stuff with garlic, she won't want to swallow it cause it tastes gross.
I'm trying to eat a piece of fruit with every meal.
2006-11-03 17:18:18 · answer #3 · answered by three6ty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no they can't control how much....but they can control how long!
So take as much as you can and than put the rest in a towel.
PS Ill be over at about 8 :)
2006-11-03 16:28:50 · answer #4 · answered by unan1m0us 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They can, but it's extremely difficult except for a rare few. I think there's some muscle that can be flexed in order to cause a "dry orgasm." But I've never been able to get the hang of it.
2006-11-03 16:27:24 · answer #5 · answered by Fen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would probably be best if you invite one of your girlfriends over to perform a duet on your boyfriend. When he begins to spurt, one of you can take the first shot, the other gets the rest. Let him videotape it, too, and share it with his buddies over the internet.
2006-11-03 18:30:53 · answer #6 · answered by Roy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well; the more frequently a guy c u m s, the less he'll have, so I guess that's a way of controlling it.
2006-11-03 17:57:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a bodily function, is their any bodily function that you know of that you can control? I thought not. I dont count the seconds of my farts, gallons of my urine nor control how much baby batter is spat on the back of your throat.
2006-11-03 14:43:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depending on how good you are, you can make them release more. Mainly depends on how soon it has been since they last had a sexual encounter. It takes time to ac c.u.m mulate. Where have you been all my life.
2006-11-03 15:00:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys can't control it. if they are "backed-up" it will tend to be a lot there if a guy "relieves" himself on the regular then you have nothing to worry about
2006-11-03 14:59:38 · answer #10 · answered by FELICIA H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋