My friend had me meet her guy friend (whom she never liked, she had said in the past we would hit it off) and we hit it off and she, i assume, got possesive or jealous because shes been bringing him up basically every time we talk and acting like me and him never met each other. ive never gone for a guy if it bothered a friend in any way but i really liked this guy and it sucks knowing its not a legit reason shes acting like this and she didnt come and just talk to me considering were best friends. ever have anything like this? or have an opinion?
2006-11-03 06:14:29 · 12 answers · asked by narski123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Talk to your friend before she can come up with a statement for the guy. Tell her and thank her for arranging the meeting for this gorgeous guy you have fall in love with. Thank her so much and praise for everything that she said and commented in the past that was positive about your possible relationship and how much you think that it was a great arrangement and all because of her. May be you will finally get the message across her head.
2006-11-03 06:21:48 · answer #1 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends which means more to you. your best friend or this guy.
perhaps your friend likes this guy friend or she feels that if you spend so much time with him, you wont be as close to her anymore.
i think the best thing to do is to having a heart to heart talk with her and clarify matters with her. maybe she isnt possesive or jealous in the first place? but if she really likes this guy, maybe you should put a little distance between you and him for a while. let her slowly get used to the idea of you two possibly being together but at the same time, dont overwhelm her. if both of you really like each other, you would surely get together in the end. if she is acting this way because she is possesive over you, maybe its because you are spending more time than him and she feels left out or fears "losing you". than, you would really have to assure her its alright.
maybe she finds it hard to talk to you even though you are best friends so maybe you should try to take the first step.
2006-11-03 06:32:02 · answer #2 · answered by rain&fog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But in this case im your best friend (just setting and example). Maybe she´s jelouse know that the guy is not getting as much attention as she just to from him , or maybe shes scared that you will not pay attention to her its normal trust me girl. Because my best friend has a guy friend and i am discusted by him , so she thinks im jelouse. So maybe that might be and example of what your friend is going through, dont always think that she is jelouse, (and i dont think you should loose your friendship over a guy O_O ). another thing is that you should take sometime to talk to her about him (if your planing to take the guy to the next level) if shes really your friend she would understand but if she likes the guy you should decide betwen your BEST FRIEND and a guy.
Which do you think is more important a frienship that can last a life time or a boyfriend that you might have for some months. POINT is that it is normal for you to have disagriments with your friend and specialy your best friends sow all you have to do is solve your diferenceses have a talk . (man i wrote a lot !! n_n)
2006-11-03 06:38:04 · answer #3 · answered by kimy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say try to talk to her if that doesn't work and she continues to act childish then you may need to reevaulate your friendship. I mean if she has no reason to be this way then obviously she's not concerned about your happiness and isn't a really good friend. On the other hand are you sure she never had feelings for him?? What does he say about the situation??
2006-11-03 06:21:31 · answer #4 · answered by tisha j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frist she talks about him to you then you meet him,like him and now shes acting off the wall.She hasn`t said anything so try saying some thing yourself.Be as nice as you can,it`s your friend you know how to come at her.Talk to her,that`s all you can do untill you find out what`s really going on.Good luck on that one.
2006-11-03 06:33:28 · answer #5 · answered by Step 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definite a lot its completely organic which you may experience like that yet basically because of the fact weve the two achieved it dosent make it the spectacular situation to do and to be effortless its kinda infantile yet whats up in case you had a sturdy time than congrats lol
2016-10-15 08:23:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya. Not only when I get close to a boy but even if one of her girl friends talk with me, they get jealous.
Its human nature
2006-11-03 06:39:09 · answer #7 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should be able to talk about it since you are BFF's. Never let a MAN get in between that!
2006-11-03 06:21:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats wrong of her. Continue to talk to him if you like. If it bothers you enough, call her on it. Ask her what she's tripping on
2006-11-03 06:20:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something that you need to discuss with your friend and find out why she is upset.
2006-11-03 06:20:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋