ok, here is the story, my best friend "jane" showed up at my house uninvited, and i had a date with "john", who is in the military, and just came home for a visit, john and i, talk on the phone everyday, and jane has never said a word, nor seen so much as a photo of john, but while i went to the store, they stayed at my house, and i came back an hour later, and they had hooked up... later on i found out that they had sex in my bed, but jane knew that i really like john and wanted to at least have a shot with him, but she comes in and takes over... would you speak with her again, she is supposed to be my best friend, but the way im thinking, she really isn't... im not sure whether or not i want to speak with either again... what would ya'll do? i don't know if i should blame them both, or just 1... please help?
2006-11-03 06:14:01 · 8 answers · asked by babyatgradys 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
the fault is with both of them definitely. but the fault is mostly with your best friend.
come on! if she was your "best friend" she would Not hit on him. by doing that, she has absolutely no respect for you. if she can do it once, she can do it again. this might not be even the first time. she obviously doesn't treat you as her best friend or she is just too selfish to have anyone in her life apart from herself. you deserve a better friend than her.
and john is definitely at fault too. he was supposed to be with you but he cheated on you with your Best Friend!! he should have some self control. even if he wanted to hook up with your best friend in the first place, he should have the decency to tell you that it is over between the both of you. this is not the kind of guy you would want to spend your time with. the fact that he can cheat on you in your bed speaks volumes of the kind of degenerate person he is.
you should just shut them out of your life.
2006-11-03 06:51:14 · answer #1 · answered by rain&fog 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Blame them both and make new friends. Who needs skanks who are in bed with each other in less than an hour? John sounds like a walking STD.
2006-11-03 06:21:42 · answer #2 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blame them both, it takes two to tango. I mean I would not talk to either of them your "Best" friend stole your guy and your guy totally took the bait and went all in, he knew what he would lose (you). He went for it anyway, sorry. It is time to find someone else.
2006-11-03 06:26:34 · answer #3 · answered by Juice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choosing someone to love is really difficult. Lemme tell ya GUYZ r silent killer, they jz need nthin in tis world other than grlz, pleasure and fun. Some grlz r dumb enuff to follow them like dogs. Never fall in love at first sight! It'ss really dangerous. AS in this case, i think ya forget abt them n find for someone else...
2006-11-03 06:52:23 · answer #4 · answered by deathly_eyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt if I were you. Sounds like a selfish brat that so called best friend anyway dont talk to her dont even do anything for her.
2006-11-05 04:12:36 · answer #5 · answered by Dr.yakusamoto 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget them both. They treated you horribly. Cut off contact, and don't look back.
2006-11-03 06:21:37 · answer #6 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a new friend.
2006-11-03 06:20:06 · answer #7 · answered by love2utam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BLAME BOTH SCREW THEM
2006-11-03 06:21:51 · answer #8 · answered by ROCKSTAR*CHICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋