Is it true to never underestimate the power of lingerie? I have not been feeling sexy since the birth of our first child in Nov last year, I am also due for our second in June. I am looking to feel more confident and to bring some spice back also to make my body look more attractive since I have not gotten bacy to pre baby. Any suggestions? Please no rude answers.
2006-11-03 05:57:18 · 18 answers · asked by flaminfortune 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The sexiest organ you have is your brain. It's how you *feel* when you wear - whatever.
There are women who look out of this world sexy in blue jeans and a tight white tee shirt. Know why? Because they feel sexy and transmit that 'sexy' vibe. The actual clothing isn't the thing - it's if *you* feel it. Don't "do it for him" - that sounds to us guys too much like "take one for the team" (as in, allow yourself to be hit with a baseball in the head just to get on base).
Babies change your body tremendously. Don't worry about what once was - enjoy what is now. It's still you inside there no matter what and that's where the sexy woman is who gives off that vibe. Any man who can't see that is a dolt who lets his pecker think for him too much.
If you think lingerie is sexy, wear it! You'll feel sexy. Men love it. Get a sitter and tell him "post-baby or not i want to feel sexy - let's go buy some sexy lingerie for me to wear tonight." You'll hear the tires screeching as he pulls the truck around front.
2006-11-03 07:25:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should try what ever it takes! Lingerie is not a bad idea were it with some high heal stilettos they make your legs look a lot skinner and hot, try to make time for yourself, get a free make over at the mall by a new outfit and get your hair done.
Also just try to relax it is hard to feel sexy if you are stressed out about everything! I know it is easier said then done but just try!
have a great pregnancy!
2006-11-03 14:13:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, lingerie makes me feel cheesy. What makes me feel good is working out and cute panties. I find that after a good work-out I am way more confidant and secure, because you are pregnant I would try yoga or pilates. You could also try something new for you like a Brazilian wax job, or a new silky robe. Good Luck, honey. I'm sure you'll have no problem being more secure. Especially because your boy will find your confidence sooo sexy. : )
2006-11-03 14:13:34 · answer #3 · answered by Pirate Hooker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was once told veriety is the spice of life! Any small thing such as lingerie can be a nifty way to add a little spice for the both of you. Some times change is good.
2006-11-03 14:11:38 · answer #4 · answered by rick b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what ever feels most comfortable between you and your husband...but sometimes trying something new is fun for you both....whether it's lingerie, a new perfume or makeover, backrubs..whatever! You be the judge......
2006-11-03 14:16:35 · answer #5 · answered by lookn2cjc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Garters and stockings. Works like a charm on most men.
2006-11-03 14:13:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitly that is the way to go. If you feel good about yourself you will feel sexy and it is the best feeling
2006-11-03 14:09:32 · answer #7 · answered by 2strongfor2long 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lingerie works like a charm if it is the right one , your husband should not have to use his imagination , show a little good luck.
2006-11-03 14:08:54 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything that would help your self image and self esteem will work wonders. And if your man appreciates what you have done all the more better, which I am certain he will. Go for it and have fun.
2006-11-03 14:12:25 · answer #9 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A corset and garters. Sexy.
2006-11-03 14:08:52 · answer #10 · answered by Lotus 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋