I've had 2 miscarriges and i'm desperate to have a baby any suggestions?? please help?

Answer 1

All I can say is keep trying... Did they tell you why you had them? A lot of times they don't know but sometimes they do... Be as healthy as possible. I had 2 miscarriages and a stillbirth before I had my son, 5 months old, I know it's hard but you just have to keep trying and stay healthy (physically, mentally, and emotionally.)

Answer 2

Wow Honey, that is so sad. I am really sorry.
Do they have any idea what is causing the miscarriages? Have you had them early or late in your pregnancy? The reason I ask is because certain things will cause you to lose a baby at different times in your pregnancy. For instance, an incompetent cervix would cause you to lose your baby later in your pregnancy than some chromosomal abnormality would. Knowing that one fact would give me more information to answer your question better.
When ever you miscarry it is still devastating and it can take a long time to heal. I think that it will be easier for you to deal with this situation if you know why you miscarried. Have they done everything they can to find out the cause of the miscarriages?
If you are really feeling at the end of your rope it might be time to see a fertility specialist, even tho it is not technically necessary at this point in time. This is usually suggested after a woman has had three miscarriages but if you are really feeling desperate as you say, it may be a good idea now.
Anything that could help you get pregnant and stay that way would have to be based on the reason that you lost the baby in the first place and since I don't have that piece of information there is little I can offer you in the way of help.
If you would like to write to me and let me know at what point you lost your pregnancy I might be able to talk to you in a more meaningful way. If that would help please feel free to write to me and I will certainly write back.
In the meantime, take good care of yourself. Eat well and get plenty of rest. No matter why you miscarried being healthy will always help. Spend time with the people that you love, doing things that you enjoy. I hope to hear from you.
Blessings,
Lady T~

Answer 3

Miscarriages can be due to many reasons. You must remember that the child formation in a body is not like something that is happening in a machine. There is nothing being held together by bolts and nuts. There are no screws to be tightened. The whole thing is held together by your own muscles and other results of hormones and enzyme reactions.

Your physical activities contribute to this a lot. If you strain yourself. If you wear tight body wear. If you wear high heeled shoes - all have an affect on it

Your mental condition also matters a lot. If you are depressed. If you get angry often etc affects the enzymes in your body.

The food also contributes - I know unripe pineapples affect pregnancy.

I know of a lady who spent the last 6 months in bed with knees up most of the day to avoid her 3rd miscarriage - and she succeeded.

Good Luck

Answer 4

Our daughter sleeps in a crib correct next to our mattress. I flow her to the mattress with me on nights my husband is operating or early mornings if he has to go away. She is now 8 months and we've the draw close mattress room upstairs and a pair of smaller client bedrooms downstairs and that i dont experience secure transferring her downstairs that far-off. I sleep good understanding my daughter is interior of an hands attain incase of an emergency and that i want to envision on her in the course of the evening. I say purchase a crib and commence the transition of having your toddler woman used to drowsing in her own mattress- even as nonetheless having the finest of both worlds. Plus your husband can come decrease back to mattress too!

Answer 5

Two of my sisters-in-law had multiple miscarriages before they became pregnant with their first children. I've heard that your diet can have a big affect on whether you miscarry or not. I.e. avoid caffeine! But ultimately, talk with your doctor. Your doctor should be able to tell you why you are miscarrying and how to remedy it.

Answer 6

sweetie,
listen take it from me cause i went through it to i had a daughter that died at 24 days old than 2 miscarriages after that.. sweetie give your body some time to heal and when the time will come god will bless you with the child you been wanting like me my son is my miracle child cause after all that i thought i wasnt gonna be able to have kids but i did.... take your time and dont rush things cause god will bless you .
good luck

Answer 7

My poor mother had 9 and then had 3 kids one being me of course the best thing to do is keep trying.

Answer 8

Miscarriages are horrible and cant be avoided---but I would just recommend to try ur body recooperate and then try getting prego again---and just pray alot and relax and dont put stress in ur life----that may help!!!
God bless and I hope u get pregnant soon!

Answer 9

Just keep trying, honey. In God's time.

Answer 10

give yourself time then if their is something wrong you cant fix adopt