What should I do with this girl?

Question

Hi, I have a girlfriend & I'm love with her, but she doesn't trust me, I was marry once & divorced my ex-wife cause she cheated on me, 6 month has passed & begin a new relationship, she leave her boyf. for me, stimes when things go wrong she blame me. My ex-wife always keep messing around, disturbing me, & that makes my gf feel unsecure, I love her & want to marry her, both of us have strong temperaments & she loose control more easily that me, one day we had a fight cause my ex had been calling me & her, I'm not a hating person & never put too much attention, but my gf do, so she wanted to left me, we reconciled, last week my ex-mother-in-law ask me for a favor, she was very nice with me during my time with her daughter, so I acceded to her plea, my gf found out & though the worst of me; now she wants to leave me again, what you think, should I let her go, try to reconcile her, is she too much immature to realize what she have in her hands, or I f**k everything & it's all my fault?

Also in this last fight she told me a lot of bad things that day, I love her and didnt tell her anything, just turn around & went to my home, next week she apologized just for the things she told me, nothing more, so I didn't accept her apologies, passed another week, and I called her, hoping to fix things, in the conversation, she told me she went back with her ex (we became a lot closer during our time) so I felt betrayed, used and called her a whore and other bad things, next day she told me it was a lie, i didn't believe her cause for me she never told me lies, also during our time many times she answer the "ex" calls, saw him telling me it was just for work, and constantly she was comparing me with him, never told her nothing bad for those things, now she tolds me she doesnt want me anymore, that i leave her alone, i was trying to gave her and engament ring, we were planing to marry on feb, i love her with all my heart, for me she was my world, more that myselft, my reason to live

Answer 1

If you stay with this girl you will have a lifetime of this crap, and that is what it is. I say move to a new town and get an unlisted number that only your family and best friends know and tell me not to give the number out. That way you can start over with out your ex girlfriend knowing how to get in touch with you. It a move is to drastic for you then try getting a restraining order out on the ex. But as for the new girl she has some real issues that I don’t think are going to go away. I think it is her personality and to me it is not a very good one. If you are as nice as you sound you deserve a nice person. Your future children will be raised by your future wife and will turn out either just like her or at least somewhat like her. Do you want them to be neurotic like she is? ♥

Answer 2

good, judging through how she's all tousled in her relationships (2 boyfriends even as) she would say sure and simply use you to cheer up after which unload you. I'd say that is a little of a grey field. But when you particularly feel she's that wonderful and you do not brain what occurs later then yep you are correct two possibly three weeks and your golden. the opposite one will commonly get jealous, however when you men do not speak she'll recover from you and transfer on and you'll be able to certainly not have that threat once more... which might suck if she honestly is that lovely :L You gotta come to a decision which lady you prefer extra. on account that when you opt for one your gonna fail to notice the opposite. the dancing factor: I in my view feel that might be particularly lovely xP however a few ladies might be like.. wtf?? i assume it is determined by the way you pull it off - like if you are a particularly humorous now not awkward man you are golden with that. But when you come of tacky it is recreation over. Hope i would support :P

Answer 3

shes bad news and you'll never be happy, turn around and walk away!