2006-11-03 04:07:06 · 23 answers · asked by nightrider 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
u want to stay aloof...& then to top it ask Q like this...wat the hell u want???? wats worring u?
do u think lifes all that easy?dont chk on people chk urself...& best way is to share..share all even the feelings...giv some space
& keep some for urself
2006-11-03 04:59:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It will pass. But it's part of a cycle that will probably not end...as soon as things smooth out, more conflicts arrive. More troubles and conflicts are all lined up, down around the corner, up the street and through the hills...all waiting their turn to knock on your door. That's not pessimism...it's reality, and it helps to know that's the way it is with everyone. But also in line are accomplishments, joy, love and good feelings and good relationships. Just don't get bummed, or be so surprised, when conflicts show up. Conflicting feelings will always be a part of life, and when they do, you're going to get "that feeling" all over again. But it will pass.
2006-11-03 12:37:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down in a quiet place and reflect on your life. Listen to your instincts as you go over your thoughts. When you find one that makes you feel anxious or tight inside, its likely one of the conflicts in your life. Do this several times.
Once you have taken the time to really think about the conflict in your life, make a list, separating conflict from blessings.
Look at your list of conflict and attempt to rate it...with one being the thing you have felt the most conflict about.
Take number one ONLY and try to break it down into its various components. Once you have done that, think about how you can change or eliminate those components from your life.
This, by the way, is called the cognitive approach to problem solving and works for many things.
Good luck!
2006-11-03 14:17:32 · answer #3 · answered by Dust in the Wind 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there will always be conflict in a person's life. Nothing is ever going to go perfectly. No matter how much effort and/or planning that goes into it. You can cut down on conflict by eliminating negative energy around you. Like drama, mean people, bad thoughts. Good luck.
2006-11-03 13:38:07 · answer #4 · answered by BeezKneez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try making a list of what is going on in your life that makes the feelings of confliction. It might help when seeing them in front of you.
ONce this down -- start numbering them on level of importance. ONe being the most important and causing less confliction
Is there a to do list you can develop from this?
Is there any resolutions you can make on some of the issues in order to let them go?
Are there people you feel more relaxed around than others? What is the cause of the anxiety around some people and not others? What is it about these people that cause more anxiety? Can you do anything about it? Like, hang around people that don't cause these feelings.
It is difficult without more information to really suggest much more. I have more questions than answers.
2006-11-03 13:09:22 · answer #5 · answered by JB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find something you Really care about, and go with that. I've been having the same trouble, and finally realized that the conflicting things / people are demanding Everything but not offering much. They are All on priority page 2 now, (It is Best if You Do Not Announce This, Just Do It). and it's amazing how respect and cooperation and self-esteem skyrocket when you mentally move on. Remember, in order to be worth anything to anybody, you've got to put the oxygen mask on yourself, first!
2006-11-03 12:54:58 · answer #6 · answered by shirleykins 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
a conflict of feeling is due to having 2 choices to make . Am I on the right track ? The best way to get rid of the feelings is to make a decision .Of coarse I hold firmly to the idea that if you don't know what to do, don't do anything, because it's not the right time to . But also , making a decision even if it's wrong has it's benefits ,because making a wrong one, teaches us how to make right ones ..
2006-11-03 12:30:39 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Conflict is a natural occurance in human beings, you are not alone in this problem. Define your conflict(s). Write them down on a piece of paper. Write down each feeling you have that are associated with your conflicts. Then ask yourself if there is anything you can do to change your opinion of those conflicts.
Do you believe in God or Jesus? Do you believe that Jesus died on the cross for your sins and that He wants you to accept Him as your personal Lord and Savior? If you answered yes to these questions have a heart to heart talk with God. Tell Him you feel conflicted about certain aspects in your life and ask Him to help you out. When God is in your corner, no one can be against you.
Good luck and I hope your conflicted feelings disappear.
2006-11-03 12:25:47 · answer #8 · answered by Lyndee 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, life is full of conflicts. We have a natural man nature inside us that causes us to have to make decisions as whether to do right or follow our natural selfish instinct. Pray, tell God that you want to depend on Him for your guidance. Then accept His Son, Jesus as your Lord and Savior. When you do this. His Holy Spirit, will guide you to make correct decisions for you and others.
2006-11-03 13:55:53 · answer #9 · answered by 4HIM- Christians love 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first I would recommend finding out where the conflict is. Then resolve it. Everything will be ok if u r honest with yourself.
2006-11-03 12:26:23 · answer #10 · answered by Little Wifey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in asia some where there is a forest
pple who living with some conflicts go there in the early evening and stays all night there
once it is morning all matters are solved
do you want the address of this forest or you rather create one of your own
2006-11-03 12:20:24 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋