How do figure out if you're Bi-sexual?

Question

Well I have kissed a girl when I was like nine and I still remember it. I'm not ashamed of it and I would do it again.
I want a guy by my side but then again a companion of a female makes me feel better. So I am confused.
I kinda find myself checking out both male and female and the problem is I don't know if I want to come out of the closet because I might damage my reputation with guys.
Also my parents would freak!
So I don't know what to do with this feeling.
Help

Common guys I need help.
Be genorous and answer according to experience or what you think.

Answer 1

first think about how old you are...I say really think about what you want..if you express who you are to your family or to friends they might look at you in a different way..or you might get hated on...
I also enjoy looking at females and I do get turned on by very attractive women..I love looking at men magazines..those are very good magazines..ahh yep....anyway..back to the topic.. lol..I got sidetracked for a moment..
I think that you should keep this to your self and when you are older and can handle the comments from other then you can come out.

I wish you the best of luck....

Answer 2

If you find both me an women attractive and you wouldnt mind being with either or then yes more then likely you are by that or your just curious about doing things with women in order for you to figure it out you have to find out yourself, If you like doing things with females then yes you probably are bi but you wont know til you try.

Answer 3

Just date who you like, no matter if the person is male female, neither, or both. Just ignore what others think. I had to learn that one very fast growing up a queer genderqueer wiccan in a very conservative community. Just be true to yourself and don't worry about what others think.