if you dont want a baby keep your dang legs shut if you were raped and got preggo have the baby and put it up for adoption why kill it not that babies fault and you are murdering something!
2006-11-03 03:36:15 · 35 answers · asked by lita 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I HAVE BEEN RAPED BEFORE BY MY MOTHERS BFS! ALONG WITH MY BROTHERS FRIEND AT 15 SO I DO KNOW HOW IT FEELS TO HAVE THOSE EMOTIONAL SCARS!
2006-11-03 07:07:59 · update #1
God gave man the right to chose in all things. Who are we to remove that choice for anyone? He gave us commandments to follow and man gave us laws. A person still has a right to chose right and wrong for themselves. If they chose to go to hell that is their decision.
2006-11-03 03:52:49 · answer #1 · answered by sexmagnet 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
WOW this is intense have you ever looked at it that maybe they are doing it for the baby's best interest. Now what i mean by this is the adoption process and can not be very healthy as far as i have seen toward the baby or evens child's health. Furthermore i find that some mother can't take care of a baby and it is better then having it and letting it suffer and have a horrible life and more pain then abortion.
On the issue of rape i take it you never have been raped so you can be opinionated all you want but think of this rape in it's self is mentally and physically painful. Now taking a already damaged woman and making her carry something for 9 months that would remind her time and time again of the pain and suffering she went through and the result of something she did not want to have in the first place. How can you say that under this that it is not OK. i hope you go through the same pain my wife did when this happened to her and see how much it killed her inside.
2006-11-03 06:11:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
No, its not the same thing. Just because a woman makes the decision to have abortion doesn't make her a murderer. The Circumstances are different for each woman, and they have the right to make the choice that is right for them, whether its abortion, adoption , or to keep their baby. Everyone has the right to their own opinion , so there is no right or wrong answer. So just because a woman has an abortion doesnt mean you should commit murder and doesnt make that woman a bad person. So no matter what decision a woman makes, you have no idea how they feel or what went throught , intill in have been in their shoes.
2006-11-03 05:59:40 · answer #3 · answered by ohmygodtwins404 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I think that the only situation that it is suitable to have an abortion in is in the case of rape, why should someone bare the child of a psycho? A 14 year old that was raped does not have a body that is prepared to have a child! Then also if you have the child and put the child up for adoption you are forcing a life of hardship and pain closed doors and little oppurtunity on it! So why would you torture the child first by it having a sex offender as a father being passed around in the system and lacking the feeling of being wanted when abortion is a simple way of preventing all of these measures and also preventing a liketime of depression on the woman who actually birthed the child. The woman would be depressed forever know that somewhere in this world she has a child that she can't help.
2006-11-03 03:49:07 · answer #4 · answered by HeART oF GoLD 2 · 5⤊ 3⤋
Why would you even ask this here?? If you want to talk about this find a abortion debate board.
Yes abortion is murder in my eyes, it is very possible for a baby to live at just 20 weeks of birth yet some states allow abortions to go up to 22 weeks and ababy starts to kick at 15 weeks and a heart starts to beat at 6 weeks and anyone who has a education knows anything with a heart beat is living.
The fact remains that no priest or nun has ever agreed with abortion, they are all against it and all say that in gods eyes it is murder, nuns and priest know god better then we do and if they say it is murder then it is.
If idiots out here want to take the chance of burning in hell then they can go ahead but I am saying this right now, if you get an abortion and a church finds out about it you will not be welcome in that church.
People who get pregnant and have an abortion are one thing and one thing only, LAZY. Thier is BC and condoms and these morons are to lazy to use them so they would rather use killiing a baby as a form of birth control.
I have heard so many stories of people bombing abortion clinics and I got one thing to say to that, good for them.
2006-11-03 05:38:38 · answer #5 · answered by Diamonds_Glow 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'd like to know....from you people who think you would NEVER have an abortion, say if you were raped, or got pregnant by mistake....until you're IN that sort of situation, do you really think you'd never consider abortion for even one moment? Give me a break. Until you've been knocked up, one way or another, you have no idea what you'd do. I got pregnant when I was 19. We did not use BC. For about a day, after I found out, I considered getting an abortion. But guess what...I had my daughter, and she is beautiful, and I wouldn't change her or my decision for anything. I think people who have abortions, they have enough guilt to deal with without idiots like you calling them murderers.
2006-11-03 04:47:34 · answer #6 · answered by SassySours 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
no abortion is not murder. I believe in abortion as long as its done in the first 8 weeks of pregnancy. that is not murder because that fetus is not capable of living on its own. However if u go and kill someone that is murder becuase that person does not depend on anyone for survival.
another thing if u had been raped I dont think u want to go thru the hassle and discomfort of carying a child-----
2006-11-03 06:07:34 · answer #7 · answered by martha95355 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
They are not even the same thing ~ who are you too judge anyway? Yes some people have abortions at a drop of a hat but some are for health or other reasons (such as rape) - and personally if I was raped I think that having a baby inside of me from a rape would be reliving that rape every single day for the next 9 months.
2006-11-03 03:48:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 2⤋
Why must you people do this everyday????? WHO CARES what we all think about that issue. It's not going to change, and you aren't going to stop people from having abortions!!!!!
Could you maybe take your abortion bashing to another board???
Frankly, i am tired of hearing about it and seeing the same question posted everyday. Look at the past answers, hun. You aren't changing the law or anybody's view.
But yes, we should be able to just murder everyone. That sounds wonderful. Where should we start??? Maybe we should just kills the people that have abortions, right? RIGHT???
I love these questions, really, i do.
2006-11-03 04:25:19 · answer #9 · answered by 3rdtimesacharm 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
It is NOT the same thing. Why do you even care what other women do with their bodies? And adoption is not always the "best" option. Look around this country, we have way too many children that have been put up for adoption and stay in foster care their entire childhood. You can't just tell people to close their legs, if they want to have sex they will, let them deal with it their own way.
2006-11-03 04:09:25 · answer #10 · answered by Chelle's Belle 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
what is your experience in this to tell everyone else what is wrong or right? please tell me what makes you think you know everyones situration
are you offering to give all the unwanted or unable to be cared for babies a GOOD HOME?
sometimes its not rape sometimes its a young woman who been raised by abusive parents ect ect she hasnt been taught what to look for in a man she thinks she has found love even get MARRIED get pregnant and then finds out what her man is like.... just one scenario.... there are many other ... SOOO tell me your experience?!!!
so how do you think it might affect a young woman (16 or so) to carry a child for nine months drop out of school? ect ect effects on her body ect ect... and then just had over a baby.... how many children who are turned over (adoption ect have many problems not knowing their back ground wondering why they were given away.... there are t sides to everything no black or white ... sometimes you make choices based on what you can handle without going crazy.....
there really isnt alot of women who are happy about abortion its just one of those not so pretty things in life ....
But really .... i just want to know your experince with this?.... tell all of us fools how to be PERFECT and make all the PERFECT choices.... i can gaurantee you if you were really so damn perfect you wouldnt be on this earth.....
2006-11-03 04:49:44 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋