What is so wrong with Debra wanting change her image from a good girl to a naughty girl?

Question

From my experience I find that guys are much more attracted to naughty girls....She mention she got really tight jeans and bought a pack of cigarettes to just light and hold but not really smoke...I see nothing wrong with that...I am a smoker and not encouraging her to smoke, but it she wants to use a lit cigarette to get attention and help her bad girl image...she is not hurting anything..she is not really smoking as she says ...just holding it and taking a puff or two.

Answer 1

I am only against it if she is not remaining true to who she is. What's the point of attracting a guy who wants a 'bad girl' if she's not really a 'bad girl'? Why wouldn't you want someone who's attracted to the real you? Or did you want to put up a false front your entire life? And I'm sorry, I'm a smoker too, but to spend money on a pack to just sit there and hold it and act like you're smoking is just silly. You think people can't tell when you're 'fake' smoking? She'll just look like a poser and no guy is going to be attracted to that. Smoke or don't - don't try to be one if you're not.

Answer 2

But is she changing because guys like that..... because that is the wrong reason to change yourself. She needs to be a bad girl because she likes the ways it feels, or the way she looks, not because a guy does.

Answer 3

I really dont know. But, shes just sad about her image. So, she prob. wants to try something new. Is what im guessing.

Answer 4

are you talking about the debra on everybody loves raymond? if you are it's because her script told her to

Answer 5

I'm sorry. Debra who?

Answer 6

Everything, she's not being true to herself.