Why is it that i become silent when i have a lot to talk to someone?
2006-11-03 02:39:57 · 9 answers · asked by - 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
because you can't decide what to say first, right? it's not a confidence issue, it's one of thinking that you must get it right the first time. just say anything and then edit and add to it and reprioritize as you go along. the person might misunderstand at first but then if you keep talking until it has all been explained.
2006-11-03 04:19:51 · answer #1 · answered by ♥perishedmemories♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to mull over the problem in your idea and you need to put it to words. Tell the person to wait and if it is your mate the core of your problem will work itself out in the conversation.
You feel like Lassie. You need to bark about Timmy being down the well. It will spit out eventurally. So silence of now is OK O you do not want it to be known that you are a blabber mouth or gossip so silence before some people are good.
2006-11-03 10:48:30 · answer #2 · answered by Nina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rather than trying to remember all of the things you want to say all at once... start a conversation with something easy to talk about.... then, once you've gotten started, and the person is listening, and responding... you can build on that and move on to more important topics...
Also, don't try to do this all in 1 conversation... build trust first.
2006-11-03 10:49:22 · answer #3 · answered by Heath 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that the thoughts are swirling and making you unable to concentrate on being able to express them. Isn't it ironic that just when you have the most to say, you're unable to do it!
2006-11-03 10:47:54 · answer #4 · answered by Kacky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shy, lack of self confidence, scared, don't speak their language. A multitude of reasons
2006-11-03 10:45:27 · answer #5 · answered by Bella Donna 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's either you think too high of that person then you become so nervous that your nerves are shocked and there is not much you can do
2006-11-03 10:46:55 · answer #6 · answered by lizie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably becuase u are hesitant and scared to wat the person might think of your talks, if the person will support you or not, you also probably dont know how to begin the talks or from where to begin them.
2006-11-03 13:00:45 · answer #7 · answered by wacko 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah like she said lack of confidence.Believe in yourself.
2006-11-03 10:49:38 · answer #8 · answered by It Co$t To Be Around The Bo$$ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know
2006-11-03 13:28:58 · answer #9 · answered by Joe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋