what are you feelling?

Question

My husband's son went on holiday. He got a reading from someone which says, you got asking your dad to help you now because his wife will get all of his money.

I come from Bali, Indonesia. I am Hindu. I come from quite wealthy family in Bali.

From the begining, his son and daughter are not agree with our marriage. His daughter won't speak to him until now.
After that reading, he changes alot. We argue alot and one day I asked him to book my flight to Bali. I couldn't stand anymore. But just before boarding, he asked me to come back. And I am here now. He said, he trust his feeling. Not that reading.
I am still so sad but I try to stay. It's heart......! But I love him so much.

I just wanna know what are you feeling if you were me.
And I am sorry if my spelling are not right. Thanks so much

Answer 1

I would be feeling pretty angry at the phoney fortune teller who made a quick buck and nearly ruined your marriage just by spouting a bit of rubbish. I would track them down and give them a pasting.

Answer 2

It is very difficult for anyone going into a relationship where there are already children.
Especially if they are in there teenage years,they feel as though you are taking their parent away from them.
I am sure your husband loves you very much,but he has to think of his children as well.
You must try and get all of them together,and sit down and talk,and try to find out where you are all going wrong.
Your husbands children may just resent you,because you are there.
Don't let the children come between you,but you need to compromise.

Answer 3

These 'readings' are evil, and they guide people to do things or feel things that they wouldn't normally do. Your husband's son was foolish in having it in the first place, but thank god he doesn't take any notice of this rubbish now. It's not his fault, just keep loving him.

Answer 4

He needs to trust YOU, not some reading. You are his wife. And his kids have to accept that because he is their father. I would feel the same way you do. Betrayed and hurt. He needs to speak to his children and make them understand that you are his wife and need to be treated with respect. Good luck.

Answer 5

For him to believe what someone told his I would have to question his feeling for me .And if the son did agree with the relationship he could have fabricated this whole thing .

Answer 6

If i were u, i wouldn't leave my husband because of that. Since he had apologised to u, then go back to him and feel right about it. But as time goes on, if he starts to behave somehow to you then do something about it---leave him to his children.

Answer 7

i understand what you mean,i would be hurt too if that happens to me .fight for your right as a wife if he fights for you.But sorry honey this is the truth,you can always replace your husband and wife but not your children.try to think about it over and over again.good luck!

Answer 8

if you are unhappy you should go home, i am sure your family woudl rather you were happy than honourable?

i dont know much about hinduism but maybe you can talk to your priest/vicar/iman/rabbi etc?

good luck and try to find things that make you happy.

Answer 9

hi whats a reading

Answer 10

you seem so kind and so sweet to me that your spelling does not matter...maybe you need a friend..a caring woman to lean on and talk to about these personal things...sometimes a woman knows how to handle this kind of thing..email me and let me show you how i like to deal with a sweet little thing like you