Insightful People Only, Will our friendship work out ?

Question

I met this woman online. We have known each other for 8 months
now, and have kept in contact ever since, even yesterday. Our
1 and only phone conversation lasted 3 hours, which went
extremely well. And she laughed, half the time. I just closed the
door on a relationship with my ex, and moved to a beach resort.
For a job.... She stopped talking to me, when I told her that for
about 2 weeks afterwards, though. Note this woman, can be very
jealous. (Aries). Anyway, she got back in touch, via email. And
said, she was back with her exboyfriend. See saw relationship.
And that she wanted to just be friends with me, after I directed
my attention elsewhere, briefly.... So since I don't wanna ruin
anything that we have, should we just remain friends, or should
I go and leave her hanging ? Because she seemed to want more
than that at first, until I mentioned my ex girlfriend. Keep in mind,
I have never met this woman, but seen her pic. Never seen me, though.

Answer 1

youre investing way too much emotional energy on this female and you pretty much know you have no chance with her. snap out of it. dont give a damn. be the guy that is very sexual. talk about your ex. tell her that youre seeing a beautiful girl, and ask her for advice on how to get her. youre "friends", based on her call, so keep it "friendly". tell her youre having a great time hanging out with chicks and friends and tell her how much she's missing out by not being with you

girls are attracted to winners, not losers. youre not making yourself attractive and conveying success and sexiness, so she has no reason to be attracted to you. totally disregard her jealousy, in fact rub it in her face and make her jealous, but make it seem unintentional. if she's just a "friend" then she shouldnt feel jealous. if she does, then its a sign that she's attracted to you. if not, no loss to you

be willing to throw it away. a 1 phone-call-in-8-months friendship isnt anything to celebrate. raise your standards dude...

Answer 2

If you are a Man of God then, you will remain friends with her dispite how she handle the situation with the 2 of you. Besides, you can't get mad about someone that you never really had to begin with. You met her on the net and you saw a pic of her (so she said it was her). You are a better person than to try and get revenge or hurt her just cause you two didn't workout as a couple. Be her friend in whatever way that she may need you and move on with your life cause God has someone better for you if HE gave her someone else. Trust in your heart but mostly in God and HE will give you the desires of your heart. God bless you

Answer 3

You seem a point headed style of individual. in basic terms those with character subject concerns might bond with yet somebody else in this way. Obsessive Compulsive sickness or Bi-Polar persons might go through on the shortcoming of a chum as you defined. should not be a difficulty for somebody who's on stability.

Answer 4

There is nothing wrong with staying friends, a friendship can take you many places. You never know which way things may go, just you stay strong and focus on you and your happiness and if it's meant to be for you and her to be more than friends that time will come. If you really care for her than it won't bother you just being her friend. Let nature take its course......

Sometimes Friends become lovers!!!!!!!!

Answer 5

i think you have been her comfort blanket.a constant one at that in her time of need.if she has an on and off relationship that sorta means that however they try they keep each other close.but is this the kind of relationship for you?i feel you could be called upon each time the split comes and the dropped when they get back together.dont sell yourself short no dont wait around for that,you may fall too deep and she isnt prepared too

Answer 6

Yep...you said it. A see-saw relationship. Either she is making it up about the new boyfriend, or she thought you were rebounding from a relationship. Just be friends and see where it goes...if she keeps in touch with you while she has this new boyfriend, I'd ask her what she wants ...

Answer 7

I think you should stay freinds for now and see what happens you never know what might happen if you guys get along real good you shouldnt just throw that away but dont just wait around for her and not look some one else good luck

Answer 8

Life has many paths. Time can open or close many forks in any path. Remain friends,but move on yourself. If you truly like her,you won't want to harm the relationship she now has,,Good Luck to you! :-)=

Answer 9

if you care about this woman and would like to keep the friendship, i'd say yes, go ahead and try to work it out. she sounds like she's trying to make you jealous because of something...i just don't really know what or why. but if you don't mind her jealousy, then keep her around!

Answer 10

She sounds pretty mixed up, I would forget about her she sounds like she is using you to boost her ego.