To what extend you allow to your husband to order you? Where is the limit that he cant cross with ordering you or interfering your private space? Or there is no such limitation?
2006-11-03 01:25:26 · 14 answers · asked by Reema_AlShammeri 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My husband does not "Order" me! We respect each other.
2006-11-03 01:27:58 · answer #1 · answered by Lt 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a husband I can tell you I don't order my wife around. We come to agreements and undewrstanding and are respectful of each other. I guess this is not the case with your marriage.
2006-11-03 09:46:39 · answer #2 · answered by St.Anger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you say "order", do you mean like a master and slave situation? If that's what you're talking about, let me say this: My husband doesn't order me about, he ASKS me to do things for him, or I do them on my own, because I love him. He has never even dared to say that to me; if he had done that while we were dating, I would never have married him.
If you're in a relationship like that, you should get out of it as soon as you can. NO ONE should order ANYONE around. Sounds to me like there is zero love in your relationship, and you should not tolerate it one more second. If he hasn't put his hands on you in anger, he will, and this relationship will only get worse. Get out now while you still have some sense in your head. Good luck.
2006-11-03 12:49:01 · answer #3 · answered by kellygirlaj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A husband should not order his wife. They are equal partners in life. My husband and I respect each other deeply and we ask things of each other and compromise. No one orders anyone.
2006-11-03 12:45:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ordering? I can't say that my husband has ever "ordered" me to do anything. He helps me out around the house and stuff...except laundry. He might order me to do laundry every now and again, because I hate it and I tend to let it pile up. :)
2006-11-03 09:28:48 · answer #5 · answered by BeezKneez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if it's something I would do anyway I would be okay with it. When he gets 'bossy' I let him know.."Hey, I'm feeling a little bossed around! Can you do it yourself?" He ususally says sorry and gets whatever he needs or needs done himself.
Sometimes men have been bossed around all day, and they take it cause they are getting paid. I remind him, I'm not getting PAID to take his bossing, and go over his day with him. More likely than not he had a heavy day. He feels better when he gets that out.
2006-11-03 09:31:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I are equal. He does not order me around and I dont order him.
2006-11-03 09:29:14 · answer #7 · answered by mnwomen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband does not order me. We treat each other equally with respect. I wouldn't order him around, and vise versa.
2006-11-03 09:29:27 · answer #8 · answered by Carey L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know a lot of women here get sensitive on this subject....men's nature is to be the head of the house and yes, men are more aggressive than women. My man is the head of the house, I am the heart of the house. I myself do submit to him unless it would be something against our religious values, I am supposed to submit to him. Not ALL men, just him. Our relationship works great for US because he is a dominant nature and likes to take charge and lead, and I am naturally more submissive. No, I am NOT A DOORMAT, I am just the gentler sex. For me, I offer my submission, he has nothing to conquer in me and returns my submission with love and affection. This is how God created us to be. This is for women's benefit, whether women choose to believe it or not.
2006-11-03 09:49:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
My husband has never ordered me and he never will! That is not good if he does!
2006-11-03 09:28:37 · answer #10 · answered by Born Country 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋