i can hear him telling me it's going to be ok ....or i see a car like his
even though the car in ? is 12 years old...others things are the day
of his sevice i got a voicemail from him even though he had been gone three weeks....cards and flowers from him....months after
he has gone ....and i took my little girl to knott berry farm and we got yearly passes 1 for my daughter 1 for me and 1 for my husband even though we had never had passes there.....so how do this happen ????? friends and family say it's because of our
wedding .....we had said forever .....and even though he not here
sometimes i swear i can smell him and feel his touch .....Am I
crazy ????or is it him ???
2006-11-03 01:24:11 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't think your crazy.........Since he died at a time and place of his own choosing he may have set some of these things up prior to his death......I have known people to do that before they die.......Mom's dying of cancer will buy birthday gifts for their children to be given out at the right time? Just a thought.......The other things you"feel" can be any number of things but I believe he is with you when you need him.....I am sure he was in a lot of pain at he time of his death but I am also sure he loved you. Enjoy your quiet times.............You will heal soon.
2006-11-03 01:32:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey,YOU ARE NOT CRAZY!!!!! It is hard to lose a loved one, much less by their own hands,so give yourself a break.I believe that your husband is around you and your daughter ALL THE TIME,that is why you feel,hear,smell,see things that remind you of him.Do you watch John Edwards?Sylvia Browne?Even though your man has passed away from this world,it is obvious to me that he chooses to stick around and will watch over you and your little girl until the day you join him.Be thankful that you have this connection,know he is with you,and continue to take one day at a time and don't be so hard on yourself.
2006-11-03 01:57:35 · answer #2 · answered by chanet_rogers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps he arranged the cards and flowers to be sent to you before he died, and it is possible that the voice message was delayed, I had one come through about 3 weeks after it was left for me. Or some one could be messing with your mind, and playing a very cruel joke on you. I think it is a shame he did not keep his vow of "forever" with you, and chose to end his own life, without any consideration as to how devastating this would be for you and your daughter. Grief councelling may be able to help you get over this.
2006-11-03 01:40:59 · answer #3 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If in fact these things are happening then look for the person who is playing games with you. (except for the voice mail those delays happen to me often.) You are obviously upset and sensitive to anything that appears out of the ordinary but it is being fueled a a real live person. From experience the touch and things that remind you of him are not unusual but will pass with time. You aren't crazy just vulnerable.
2006-11-03 01:34:58 · answer #4 · answered by dano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm very sorry for your lose, it's very hard to lose a loved one, but expecially hard when it happens that way.
It could be your husband just letting you know that he is okay and watching over you and your daughter. He's not harming you and he wishes you the best in life. Don't stress over it and don't let it make you crazy. He loved you and your daughter. Just be at peace with the fact that he wants life to go well for you.
You are not crazy!
2006-11-03 01:30:00 · answer #5 · answered by pelenpuppy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all want to believe that our loved ones that passed on are still with us. I am so sorry to hear about your loss. You must miss him terribly. I sometimes think our brains see things in order to deal with stress especially stress that you are dealing with right now. No one really knows if there are spirits around us everyday we will not know that until we pass away ourselves. Just keep yourself busy and live your life to the fullest we only have one life to live.
2006-11-03 03:47:20 · answer #6 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off I am so sorry for your loss. Second you are not crazy, and please don't be afraid he obviously doesn't want to pass yet for whatever reason. You need to find a way to communicate with him and find out what he is trying to tell you. My guess is that he wants you to know that he loved you and he is sorry. He needs your forgiveness before he can pass over.
2006-11-03 01:28:08 · answer #7 · answered by tras 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not crazy.... it may be your way of grieving... everyone grieves differently.. if your concerned about the 'incidents' then perhaps go get professional help or advise, they may solve your question, but if your happy with these events or perhaps coincidences then what harm is it doing, it may very well be his way of communication!!! its a lovely story... very interesting!! good luck!!! why dont you go to one of those psychics.. a genuine one of course, the ones that speak to the deceased like john edwards, maybe they could tell you!!! definetly look into it
2006-11-03 01:35:20 · answer #8 · answered by josephine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be...maybe the love you two had for each other was so strong that he feels like he cant rest until he feels like you are at peace and hes helping you get to that point. or it could just be coincidence. I guess its up to you to which way you want to look at it. Sorry for your loss.
2006-11-03 01:28:31 · answer #9 · answered by bbwg_hbic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U R DEEP IN LOVE WITH HIM BEFORE BUT .BE PRACTICAL .SEE THE OUTER WORLD DONT SEE INSIDE U.SEE SKY NEW FLOWERS KIDS EVERY THING GODS CREATION.AND WHERE R U STANDING TODAY WAKE UP FROM UR SLEEP.AND ENJOY UR LIFE OLD WAS GOLD BUT NEW IS LIKE DIMOND ITS MORE PRECIOUS THAN GOLD.DONT SPOIL UR TOMAROW FOR YOUR YESTERDAY.
U R NOT CRAZY BUT WHAT U R DOING IS CRAZY
2006-11-03 01:33:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋