This is kind of an embarrassing question, but I'll go ahead anyway. I've been married for a couple of years and my husband and I get little pleasure from sex by now, because I get too big down there right in the beginning of sex and we don't really feel much during intercourse anymore. Is there anything that can be done about this? Some way I can prevent my vagina from opening up so widely or something? Is it even normal to open up so widely?
Any tips or information on the subject would be appreciated. No rude comments please, this is a serious question. Thank you.
2006-11-03 01:04:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
You need to do some pelvic floor exercises. This tightens the muscles around the vagina. These are not to be confused with abdominal exercises like sit ups. When you pee you can locate the pelvic floor muscles by stopping the flow of wee. You are squeezing the muscles of your pelvic floor to do that.
Once you have discovered them you need to exercise them by squeezing them and holding them. If you do this daily, several times a day you will strengthen those muscles. You will be able to squeeze them during sex too and you will find that this is pleasurable for both of you.
Also this will prevent incontinence in later years if you continue to do it.
There are weights available too that you insert and hold in using the pelvic floor.
Don't worry. Hope this helps.
2006-11-03 01:15:36 · answer #1 · answered by JAM 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try Kegal excercises. You tighten up down there then hold it for a few seconds, then let it go. Maybe do 10 reps 10 times a day or so. Also you can do this when you urinate. Pee a little then stop and hold, then pee a little more and then stop. Sue Johansen from The Sunday Night Sex Show swears to it.
2006-11-03 06:55:16 · answer #2 · answered by dolphins_cry1998 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only idea i have is kegel exercises. You can do them anywhere anytime noone will notice. Just try tightening up all your muscles down there like you have to urinate and need to hold it, do this for 10 seconds then stop and tighten , hold release, etc, for as long as you can as often as you can. Also do this same thing during intercourse it will help.gl
2006-11-03 02:01:31 · answer #3 · answered by kittykat82 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The vagina actually opens wider and gets more swollen the more you're aroused (it's made that way to hold semen better). So that's actually a good thing (contrary to popular myth). Kegal Exercises would help though. Good Luck!
2006-11-03 09:06:21 · answer #4 · answered by CheezyYumYums 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When aroused the vagina does something called 'tenting', in which the vagina expands to accomodate a penis. A vaginalplasty surgery could help correct this problem, as for a quick fix, I can't think of any.
2006-11-03 01:09:16 · answer #5 · answered by Brixton B 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
my hubby would love that!! lol he is always complaining because im too small down there!! i have heard of a product that tightens you up, but i dont recall what it is...might want to look online at adult toy stores and see if they have a product..or maybe ask your doctor, if you are too embarassed, research for such a product online, if you find one that requires a prescription, the discreetly ask your doctor for a prescription....
also try these weblinks, i dont know if they work, but you could try them
http://www.peakresponse.com/faqs.htm
http://www.tightpleasure.com/
http://www.thedenverchannel.com/health/9165473/detail.html
http://www.yeuvadep.com/manjakani_english.asp
http://tightenvagina.com/
http://www.summitviewclinic.com/kegel_exercises.htm
i do know that kegel exercises can tighten you there.....you contract and hold yr muscles down there like you are working out, the good thing is you can do these exercises anywhere and no one knows yr doing them!!
2006-11-03 01:12:36 · answer #6 · answered by tanny_fanny2003 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Kegal excersises might help but you have to stick with them and do alot of them to notice any difference. If you have kids then you can feel like that down there. But your probally not as big as you think you are down there. Good Luck
2006-11-03 01:08:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is this product that Pashion Parties sells called "Tighten up" which may help you out. It is ment to tighten up the vaginal muscles so the snug feeling lasts. Check out Pashionparties.com for more information.
2006-11-03 01:13:28 · answer #8 · answered by Ames 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
During your sex you can't spred your leg to big that why it make your vagina big. You can do exercise during your like you are going pee and you stop in haft.
2006-11-03 02:02:02 · answer #9 · answered by Komsat/sad 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look at some kama sutra, theres different positions to make your vagina tighter, hope this helps
kim <3
2006-11-03 01:09:18 · answer #10 · answered by Kim Buns 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋