hi i'm lin....my best friend eva has been my best friend since 1996...one month ago she made a relationship with a boy and since then she is always with him and she doesn't have any free time to spare with me...she is always with him!!!!!well i understand that they are in love and they want to be all the time together but in my opinion she mustn't forget me because she is in love....i don't know what to do...plz help me!!!!!!!!!!!!thank u....lin....
2006-11-03 00:53:45 · 13 answers · asked by Lina M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Talk to her about it one on one. She probably does not realize that you're feeling this way. My friend did the same thing when she fell in love in high school. Now we're both in different colleges but we still hang out, but her bf has now become one of my friends as well. But yeah the relationship between my friend and I was never the same.
2006-11-03 00:57:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should start to realize that friendship can last forever. But it does not mean those involved must have regular/fixed time forever. This can only apply during teen years or single days. Once your friend starts to grow, she gets a bf and even marry eventually, it's inevitable that the time you spend with each other will decrease. It may even come to a point that you will see each other just on special occasions. What you could do is start growing also. Try to have a bf as well or get involved in other things.
2006-11-03 01:03:25 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sooo, you're feeling left out. Tell her you need some time too. You are used to spending that time together and now it is gone. You should have known something like this was bound to happen, or were you going to spend the rest of your life with her??? Get out there and find someone for yourself as well, ask her if this guy has a friend or a brother??? Good Luck.
2006-11-03 00:58:27 · answer #3 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your friend is making a mistake, there should be a balance between your bf/gf and your friends, it's not fair to you. She is absorbed in this new relationship but she shouldn't forget her friends because they're important. And that's why I think you should talk to her and tell her that you don't like the fact that you two don't spend any time together anymore. A sincere conversation between friends shouldn't be hard to do.
2006-11-03 01:00:35 · answer #4 · answered by Deep Thought 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The situation is normal and YOU are normal for feeling this way Lin. Be patient, she is still your friend if you just keep in touch. Maybe you should cultivate a larger group of friends to avoid being bored.
Good Luck
2006-11-03 00:58:19 · answer #5 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in exactly the same situation. However, i messed it up by trying out different ways of resolving the situation and forgot the one simple thing that wud work. Talk to her about it. If she is your best friend, then she'll understand.
2006-11-03 02:12:07 · answer #6 · answered by Richard L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and tell her how you feel. Try to work out times that you can spend together. Tell her how important her friendship is to you. Tell her that you respect that she is in love and in a new relationship but you miss her.......Good luck
2006-11-03 00:59:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anniedoll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel my sister and i was best friends also and when she got a boyfriend she stop hanging with me and i was so upset when the guy came over to the house i would start a fight with him just for him to leave. but she still stay with him and i was so mad. but after her and the guy broke up me and her start back hanging out. don't do what i did by starting a fight with her boyfriend. but just let her know how you feel that you and her don't hang out any more good luck
2006-11-03 01:23:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry it's temporary, She is only started her relationship one month ago so things are still hot. But you shouldn't be so attached to your friend...it's just an advice.
2006-11-03 00:58:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she needs to make time for friends.
2006-11-03 00:56:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋