2006-11-03 00:47:38 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
What is your mothers phone number ???!!
YOU DON'T HAVE A BABY.
2006-11-03 00:49:52 · answer #1 · answered by Jessy 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I would seek counselling. I'm telling you, you so not want a baby, not this early in life, you have plenty of time for that when you are older. I was a teenage mom, and let me tell ya, its the hardest job in the world. Not to mention that once you have a baby, your life as you know it is over. no more going to malls to hang out, no more sleep overs, no more parties or dances new clothes for you makeup and Cd's you want. You wont have the money for all that stuff. Every bit of money if any that you have will be used for the baby.Not to mention the sleep (which there will be none of). Then what about a father for the child. Do you think that this child will have a father in its life, lol. no-way. He will help you do the "deed" but then run from it all.He might say he will stay and help you, but its a load of B.S. Take it from a once teenage mom herself, and listen clearly. I know you want a child to love and care for, and for someone to love you back un-conditionally. But now is not the right time. It is so much easier and better if you wait till you are ready. And by ready, I meen, finished your schooling, have a good job and a good spouse. Please do not get pregnant, go talk to a counsellor.
2006-11-03 01:20:41 · answer #2 · answered by skybluebabyboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a baby is a HUGE responsibility. Not one for a child themselves, Babies can be fun and cute, but they are not a doll. You need to wait until you are older and more mature. Once you have a baby, that baby becomes first in everything you do. Want to go to the school party, better find a babysitter, and do you have money to pay that babysitter?? Good advise would be wait until you have finished school, and are in a committed relationship. Raising a baby alone is not always easy. Just remember that you are in no hurry, and wait until you have the ability to care for that baby and give it all the love and care that he/she will need for the next 18 years+.
2006-11-03 00:59:58 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would be nuts to want to have a baby that young -- It is so hard -- Get your education first and than a stable job (nothing like McDonalds) Of course you are going to want to be with the man that you plan on spending the rest of your life with (I'm not talking marriage cuz lets face it there are people out there gettin married for the wrong reasons) Things will fall into place if you take the right steps -- You will get pregnant when you are meant to, don't rush anything -- Live your life
2006-11-03 00:52:18 · answer #4 · answered by bebegurl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
trust me WAIT!!! I had my son when I was 17 and my hubby was 19 thank goodness we are still together and are raising our son together. It is really hard even when both parents are there. You will have a hard time finding another 15year old guy who will step up to the plate and be a dad you both are too immature to make a huge decision like having a baby... Also think while your friends are out having fun going to parties and going to bars(when they are of age) you will be stuck at home changing diapers.. you will have plenty of time to be a mommy later in life hopefully when your done school and are married or at least in a serious relationship enjoy your teenage years they go by WAY too fast trust me!!
2006-11-03 01:51:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you aren't ready, just because you want one right now, doesn't mean you'll want one tomorrow... at 15 no one knows what they want truly... go get one of those babies from the Parenting class or whatever they call it in your school, and take care of it for a week... it acts just like a real baby... you won't want one for awhile after that...
you aren't old enough at 15 to care for a child, support a child, and you have to be with this baby all the time, and since you are not yet 16 you can't drop out of school to take care of it, and you can't bring a baby to school... lastly you aren't legal age to get married, and sex before marriage is a sin... looks like you better wait until you are older, at least graduated from high school, have a job before you start to think you want to have a baby...
2006-11-03 00:52:35 · answer #6 · answered by lily 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if your in 9th grade why would u want to have a baby that Crazy you still have your whole life in front of you your ONLY 15 think when u turn 21 or anyage you will have to take care of the baby and u cant have any fun go buy a stuff baby from kids-r-us or something and ack like t's you baby abd take care of it all the time
2006-11-03 00:50:26 · answer #7 · answered by What's UP 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I strongly suggest that you hold off......it will be very hard to complete high school (not impossible but it will be a struggle). I was 19 when I had my first child and that was tough enough...you have to be able to support yourself as well as the baby before ever thinking of having one. Also while all of my friends were out having fun and going places I was at home changing diapers. I wish I had waited a little longer...it is not all it is cracked up to be when you are really young! Please re-think the situation.
2006-11-03 00:51:36 · answer #8 · answered by Stacy H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi it seems to me as pregnancy is starting to become the new fashion. It takes a lot to look after a baby,you need money to clothe and look after the baby.
Maybe you should wait till you have left school and see what your situation is then. You need to enjoy life then think of having a baby. It's a very big step!!!
2006-11-03 00:51:09 · answer #9 · answered by molly123 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
slap some sense into you heheh .. get one of those baby training things the baby that is a doll that cries and needs food and attention try that was a week .. it also records how often you picked it up and if you dropped it of shock it.. get your boyfriend to do that for a week as well..
you obviously feel like you need some one to love you and for you to love that's why you want this baby .. I would talk about how you feel . with the school counselor.. good luck and please don't make this mistake..
2006-11-03 00:51:24 · answer #10 · answered by mum 2 Cameron and Ewan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think of what kind of life you would be sentencing that chils to. How are you going to support that child? Who will take care of him/her while you are at school? Who will buy the formula, diapers, clothes, and all of the other things that baby will need? If you don't want to talk to your parents or a counselor, talk to other girls your age who have children, it is not easy!!!
2006-11-03 01:18:11 · answer #11 · answered by voidtillnow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋