A Girl Just Moved Into My Neightborhood. I Knew From The Moment I Layed Eyes On Her that My Ex-Boyfriend Likes Just Her Type, But I Thought No, And I Just Became Friends With Her, And We Hung Out All Weekend. I Introduced Her To My Girl And My Girl Didnt Like This Other Girl, But I Convinced Her To Give Her A Chance And She Did! Within The Next Couple Of Weeks This New Girl Started Going To School Where My EX Was Going. I Knew From The Start That She was Going To Try And Get With Him, So I Explained That I Was Still In Love With him And I WOuldnt Date Him If I Was Her. Well Me And My EX Had A Talk and we decided we werent gonna "take a break" but we were gonna see other people. i was perfectly ok with him seeing other people and i had seen other people too. within the next week my friend had came over and was like trying to talk to me and she couldnt and i asked her if she was dating him and she said well i really dont know and she jsut starred at me and then she said yes why am i mad?
2006-11-03 00:35:13 · 14 answers · asked by care_bear_sugar_princess_hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I never got that whole if I date him no one can. if you guys are over, and you agreed to see other people then get over it, your not a very good friend if you wont let her have a chance at happiness. I don't see anything wrong with it if she was a good friend, but if she just stared at you and asked you why you were mad, that obviously tells you she's kind of a jerk, she obviously doesn't care about you or your feelings, considering you just told her you were still in love with him, if I started dating my friends ex I would have at least shown that I was sorry for causing any pain, but some thins cant be helped, such as holding back feeling for a guy, dang,... then I'm sorry but if I were you I would have brought her down. keep in mind though that if you guys are supposed to be together you will and if he wanted to see other people then maybe you deserve better, unless it was your Idea in with case, WHAT ARE YOU BITCHING ABOUT. its not fun but remind yourself of 2 things first of all that she deserves the chance at him, and second of all that you may still have a chance of getting back together with him. I got back together with mine. Good Enough?
2006-11-03 01:02:47 · answer #1 · answered by KatieJB 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-05 21:03:17 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, unfortunatly when you and your ex agreed to see other people-that opens a can of worms and she is a new friend to you, not a life long friend, so really she is not off limits to him. Even though you say you date other people also-it seems you are jealous of him dating other people. Decide which it is going to be-are you guys together without other people involved? Or over for good?
2006-11-03 01:04:01 · answer #3 · answered by blonde_bitch_norris 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to be mad. You told this so called friend that you still loved him and she went for him anyway. For one thing ex's are off limits to real friends it's just a given rule. If she was really your friend she would have stayed away from him even if you were'nt still in love with him...
2006-11-03 00:42:07 · answer #4 · answered by crystalshannon516 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see, so if he has a handsome friend you have the hots for, then you, too, should avoid him? This, too, is crazy. After you broke up, you relinquished your rights to him. My nutty girlfriend CRIED when her ex-husband married. Give me a break. Life doesn't end when a relationship ends. If it does seem to, better seek professional help(or at least the ear of a wise, sympathetic friend or two)!
2006-11-03 01:20:30 · answer #5 · answered by Dat MrE Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is definetely an unwritten rule among girlfriends about not dating boyfriends and ex boyfriends, time for the broad to go, real friends don't give in that easily.
2006-11-03 00:44:06 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not a friend. You told her that you were still in love with your bf and she still went after him, what kind of friend is that?Real friends don't do that to one another. Kick her and your ex to the curb you could do better off without them.
2006-11-03 00:49:46 · answer #7 · answered by lovely peach 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you are young and in love with the boy. Forget him, there are plenty of others out there. and just a tip, you don't chose who you fall in love with, you just see that person and there it is. If he was such a crappy boyfriend, she'll either get the same treatment, or he will have learned and treat her better.
2006-11-03 00:43:30 · answer #8 · answered by sillyredhead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not a friend. It is so the unwritten rule to date your friend's ex . Move onwards and upwards girl - they both deserve eachother and remember WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND. Leave them to it and find yourself a better man who will treat you like a princess.
2006-11-03 00:40:34 · answer #9 · answered by lily b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You feel this way because you probably feel like she went behind your back. She is definately not a friend. I wouldn't be calling her back for anything.
2006-11-03 01:01:20 · answer #10 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋