help me please? my attitude towards women?

Question

whenever i see a girl or a lady i never see their face but their breasts ... it has become my manner what can i do?

Answer 1

I would think that is normal. What you have to do is use your will power to focus on some part of her face. There are lots of us that have to do that.

Force your self to listen to what she is saying and to think of her as a person. As all young men, your hormones are working and nature is preparing you for marriage by making women sexually attractive.

A woman's breasts are a natural thing to be attracted to. It is one of the signs that she is menstruating and able to get pregnant.

One of the things that we have to deal with, is that in our high tech culture, men have to wait until they have finished their education and have a stable job before they're prepared to get married and have children.

I don't know why some men are more attracted to breasts and others are more attracted to legs or butts. One thing that may be a factor is the size of your mothers breasts. Often, we are attracted to women that bear some resemblance to our mothers.

Answer 2

they're seen as chattels in all respects , The male is the grasp and that they should obey as he has the basically good be conscious on each and every thing . in case you think of that they seem to be a sensible donkey with some nicely worth then it grants some thought of what there rights are . it varies somewhat from barren area tribes to cities yet no longer a lot. yet another judgement is that if a woman is raped they're punished for no longer resisting sufficient the punishment can now and back be dying via stoning , the male can purchase his way out as a rapist with money or get of if he says they have been being provocative. a faith conceived from Christianity of the six century and has stayed there.

Answer 3

You should be a real man and stop being perverted and gross. And it is offensive, especially to humble woman who are conscious of dirty minded men. When I meet a new man and all he does is look at me in unwanted ways, I tell my husband that I dint want that man close to us anymore. I also tell the person to not do that because it messes up your brain. You can find yourself doing it in your mind first because that's how it starts, but then you can become a rapist. Seek help.

Answer 4

Perhaps you have a breast fetish. To be socially acceptable, practice looking the gals in the eye, however! You don't want people staring at your crotch or butt all the time while they talk to you, do ya? ;-)

Answer 5

Look at the face.

I, too, went through a phase of looking and thinking of the boobs, but i realized that it demeans and marginalizes the woman and speaks badly of myself.

i made a conscious effort to change this attitude

Answer 6

just change where you look!!!! when you talk to someone, instead of lookin at their breasts or if you cant faace eye contact, focus on the bridge of their nose, right between their eyse,then it will look like you are makin eye contact. most girls cant stand the thought that your only lookin at them for their boobs so just try not to !!!!

Answer 7

That's callled male hormones acting up. Try NOT to notice their breasts.

Answer 8

try and just think of them as other people, don't think 'woah, a girl/lady' think 'some person', I know we're not all the same and we have our differences (physically, &c.) but we are just people too. when you see a dog you don't think girl dog, or boy dog, you just think dog. Try to see people as people and not specific to one sex or another until you're over your boob phase.

Answer 9

how bout u just dont look at them look for something on the top of their head. lol

good luck

Answer 10

hahahah good luck with that .. you must have weird and very short conversation with these breasts
thanks for the two points and the laugh made my day ..