Really wimpy girl, ashamed of it, need positive assistance! Help and guidance to get a tougher resolve to deal with issues, problems and struggles both mentally and phyiscally. Need to be coping with physical pain and mental anguish. Can't handle pressure and worries about not being able to cope with people. To learn to be able to manage a routine to help people and scared of letting people down due to an inability to take on those responsibilities. THANK YOU FOR READING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-02 22:40:35 · 5 answers · asked by shadow 5 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
For starters,stop calling yourself "wimpy girl",no wonder you feel ashamed.Don't be afraid to get "fighting mad",many times it takes that kind of resolve.Your problems sound like the normal challenges people face in life,however,you must "get on top of them" and stop cowering before them.Stop telling yourself that you can't.Keep in touch and good luck.SM
2006-11-02 23:05:13 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing you need to change: The way you think about yourself.
People who brag and are too over confident is only because they think they are. If you think your 'whimpy' then your body will just forever be a wimp no matter how many other boxing or excercising takes you.
Secondly: After you've changed the way you think your body will try to follow. Then you could try to be more sociable. you dont have to talk with top classed people but try to talk to many different kinds of people and get the feel and experience of different ways of life. That way you'd gain confidence and be more practically experienced.
Thirdly: You have to make the giant step from wimp to confident NOW. no holding back or hesitating any longer. You know the first step is always the hardest so just get over it.
Remember turning confident doesnt mean you control other people like a bully, it means you can handle them!
After all those steps are done then you can survey to the other more harder stuff. Though the steps seem simple they should be the first and the most important ordeal to go through!
Best of Luck GIRL!
2006-11-02 23:06:08 · answer #2 · answered by rhea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you wanted, you could always come and join up on my forum where I can help you. My contact details are on my profile, as is the forum URL. It also offers a better explanation of it to.
It is designed to help those in need of friendly advice in a relaxed atmosphere without people giving you idiotic answers as some are prone to do on this site.
I can do my best to give you the support that you need, and I can offer my advice to help you in situations when you need it. I'm available almost any time of the day or night, so you can contact me when you really need me.
But like I said, read my profile for all the details that you need if you would like the help that you are asking for, and I will address any questions you may have to the best of my ability.
All the best. Hope you you find that courage soon.
2006-11-02 22:51:39 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Maul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Start running
2. Start kickboxing
Being physically fit is the first step to renewed confidence and strength. Then, start working on your mind by role playin scenarios with a female you trust. Listen to the older people in your life and never tell them they are wrong, even if they are. You must discipline yourself. Good luck.
2006-11-02 22:48:59 · answer #4 · answered by kitty fresh & hissin' crew 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some grasses just dont grow into trees, they need the support of the ground under them all the time.
2006-11-02 22:49:06 · answer #5 · answered by isis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋