They throw stuff at me call me names and do everything to make my life hell. They are the popular girls of my grade. what do i do to make them go away?
2006-11-02 21:39:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Stand up to them and show them that you will not back down and let them bully you. When they call you names, call them names too. When they throw things at you, throw things right back at them. Whatever their doing to you, you make their life a living hell also. If they see fear in you then they will continue to bully you this way. It doesn't matter that it's more of them and just you. You make them see that yow will not let them ruin you. Stand up for yourself and these girls will know not to mess with you anymore.
2006-11-02 23:46:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u really should not have to put up with that talk to someone about well i am not good person to ask this quistion cuse i used to be bullled and i still am just not in a phsycle way i get really depressed some people are so nasty and try to stand up for ur self or ask a truseted adult or school nurse or concerla or some one u trust and if u have no firends that may be hard then make some new ones and u say they are popular they only say thouse stuff cuse they dont feel good about them selvs just try not to show any fear or anytrhing that will think u are a easy target good luck it will work out in the end life can be mean sometimes but dont show any fear u are not alone girl me and heps of others are in ur persion u are not alon in this nasty planat.
2006-11-02 23:12:02 · answer #2 · answered by Kara L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet you have tried telling them to stop. But, have u tried telling one of your teachers,parents,or the principal? You could tell them what these horrible girls are doing to you and u could also tell them not to say that u were the one who snitched on them. Even though u might think that snitching isn't cool or whatever, you shouldn't take what the so called "popular girls" are doing to you. Just because they are popular, doesn't mean that you should be treated that way. Also, it won't help if u do the same thing back because you would get in trouble too. Hope this helps!
2006-11-02 21:50:06 · answer #3 · answered by C.S.R. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could try making friends with them, but it seems to me that that is out of the question, so i sufggest that you get together with a bunch friends who get the same thing from them as you and feel the same about them and then get back at them. Don't even think twice about it. Don't think about being nice or anything like that. You need Power to do something like this though, and I recommend these books for you to read: 42 Laws of Power and 40 Laws of Seduction. These are wonderful books and If you practice the laws which are in this book, you will attain great levels of Power in society. You could rule the whole school, and that is the ultimate goal.
Good Luck!
2006-11-02 21:51:38 · answer #4 · answered by Hakim Bin Luqman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These girls are bullies. A problem in every school. They need consequences for their actions. I would get my parents involved. If parents won't do anything or say "ignore" them, then talk to a school counselor. Or someone else who has the authority to do something about it, and yes you may be labeled a snitch but many children have had to cope with bullies because no one would do anything about it. Taking away privileges from these "popular" girls will do wonders for their behavior.
I do wish you luck and I hope that someone will help you.
Peace.
2006-11-02 21:46:49 · answer #5 · answered by -Tequila17 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, if you can't get them to stop by ignoring them, you can always try to make them stop by being nice to them. In other words, kill them with kindness. I'm not saying hang out with them, all you have to do is say hi or wave to them. Make sure you have a smile on your face. Their way of thinking is if they can make you miserable, that makes them happy. But if you're already happy and they don't get a reaction out of you, it's no fun for them anymore, and they'll most likely move on.
Also, agreeing with the comment above, they will grow old to be bitter adults. Let that be a reminder when you need something to smile about. :) Good luck, sweetie!
2006-11-02 22:35:43 · answer #6 · answered by rellimztik_arual 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start catching what they throw and toss it in the garbage in front of them to show its not bothering you. They keep going cus it gets a reaction from you. If it gets really bad take the stuff you throw and say to them you will be taking this stuff to the principal.
Its all in how you react. Think about ways to get back at them without bringin yourself to thier level.
Pick up stuff and say "hey thanks I can use that". that kind of stuff really pisses them off.
Go for it kiddo!
2006-11-02 21:44:39 · answer #7 · answered by wingedladyk 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to let them know they don't scare you
I suppose by throwing the stuff back at them
but that is not nice & its a scary thing to do!!
i know the teachers are no good sometimes when it comes to bullies but maybe report them to the teachers.
you do need to tell your parents as well
2006-11-02 23:04:46 · answer #8 · answered by ausblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
punch them!!!!! no... do something to embarrass them... find out some info on them they wouldn't want people to know and tell the world..Girls like this need to be taken down a peg!!!! they will end up being sad old adults any way the best days of there life will be school.. but you have your whole life to look forward to..~Karma...
2006-11-02 21:43:23 · answer #9 · answered by mum 2 Cameron and Ewan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Watch Mean Girls to get some pointers
2006-11-02 22:05:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋