Ya i tell u... i dont know what's wrong but i'm in the state of fix when nothing seems to bring motivation, inspiration... i cna't visualize my career goal, i'm employed but unhappy with what i'm doing... sometimes i feel as if some people are trampling over my personality, they are eating away my confidence, their criticism becomes so daunting... i know my job and work efficiently, but i guess i lack aggression, the punch, I never had a social life, been all the while an introvert... living in my own world, it seems all this have snowballed into such travesty which i'm facing today... i want to come off this rut... can anyone help me out...please.....
2006-11-02 21:10:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Business & Finance ➔ Careers & Employment
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2006-11-02 21:18:29 · answer #1 · answered by Chuck Dhue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude you're asking for too much at once here. Life change doesn't work that way. Take one thing at a time or you'll continue to feel overwhelmed. Sort things out on paper - a list of what is not working in your life, a list of what is working in your life (you might have to work a little harder on that one) then break down each "item" as an individual question - Maybe ask for good alternate careers for people who do your job... tips on standing up for yourself... tips on brushing off criticism and bouncing back from setbacks... tips for cultivating more friends and acquaintances to improve your "social life..."
Try to sort it out first... work it out one issue at a time and don't get discouraged by little setbacks - every day is a new day. Many people go through a stage like this at some point in their life. Including myself. If after a few weeks you still REALLY feel miserable, you're working to improve your mood & still can't shake the blues, if your sleeping/eating/concentration is suffering, seek psychiatric help. Hang in there...things will turn around!
2006-11-02 21:36:05 · answer #2 · answered by Auntie M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, lots of people feel this way. Pardon me for saying this but, it is because you fail to count your blessings and be satisfied with what you have. Look at yourself closely... at the different parts of your body. Are you incapacitated in anyway ? or are you normal? If you are normal, then that alone should make you grateful and happy. There are people in the world who may have one part of their body missing. Do you have a roof over your head? Many sleep in the streets in the coldness of the night. Do you have a job? Many are unemployed, walking around in sadness ..There are many more things that you should be grateful for. Appreciate what you have and be happy. No one can make you truly happy . Real happiness comes from inside of you and it is only a state of the mind.
Choose to be a positive thinker, be happy and pull yourself out of the quagmire that you are in. I know you got my point.
2006-11-02 21:29:46 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-03 05:52:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, one positive thing about you is that how much the hard situation is your analytical mind is working. U r analysing the situation and if you read what you have written as a third person who is not actually going through it will make it easily that you yourself has pointed out ur deffects and pitfalls when u can find deffects i think u too hv the ability to correct them try it to give a shot....
2006-11-02 21:27:02 · answer #5 · answered by AD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya > No Ben there If you do not like what you are doing for a living.. Everything else will probably Suk. I love life.. But.. I like what I do to make $...
By the way.. I'm a commercial fisherman..
Ooohhh .. I'm superstitious (don't like # 13)
Oh yes .. I belive in GOD!
2006-11-02 21:25:02 · answer #6 · answered by mr.longshot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend you need JESUS!! You see I was once like you, I had virtually every thing I wanted but felt so empty, no happiness, had inferiority complex, unsatisfied with my works, uncomfortable with my friends, totally comfused, untill a friend insisted I meet JESUS. Ever since then I have never regretted.
2006-11-02 21:20:09 · answer #7 · answered by Nnamsco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a u turn in your life.
instead of working for others, start working for urself.
Start reading a lot abot business.
one sure way would be to log on to
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2006-11-03 19:20:46 · answer #8 · answered by preksheena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋