Have you ever felt that people were admiring your friend or sister or somebody you're with, and totally ignoring you? What do you do then?
I try my best to stay cheerful, but sometimes it just makes me feel awkward and want to leave.
2006-11-02 20:45:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Yes, it is normal to feel awkward and want to leave and it hurts. However, I would encourage you not to act out your desire to shrink into the wall paper. Doing your best to stay cheerful is commendable. Get out of introspection by joining in the conversation and exercise to include everyone in the group knowing yourself how it feels to be left-out.
2006-11-02 20:51:00 · answer #1 · answered by lindakflowers 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feeling good about yourself, being confident, is the most important thing. True beauty comes from within. As people get to know others, it's the ones who are confident, kind, thoughtful of others, etc., and good listeners that become the ones who are truly admired. I once felt that everyone else got all the admiring attention until I realized how insecure I was in myself -- that I had no confidence in myself. Just know that you are a special creation of God and be yourself. We're all different. What a boring world this would be if we were all alike. You're beautiful!
2006-11-03 15:18:26 · answer #2 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't show that awkwardness. Dress up, keep your hair done, hold your head up and show some confidence. Join in the convo's, tell a funny joke and people will recognize you for being a cool person, not just going by your looks.
2006-11-03 04:52:49 · answer #3 · answered by bezsenný 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please dont think about other peoples opinions. if they are not admiring you and the person who ha scome wid u then they dont know wad they r losing out on. you should make yourself understand that u are beautifull. you have 2 be happy and confident 2 look beautiful and for god sake the blush-on wont help much. remain happy. your beautifull.
2006-11-03 05:18:41 · answer #4 · answered by sanam p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make more of an effort to get recognised, go somewhere new maybe with a different friend where people will notice both of you, make your own circle of friends away from your normal ones, maybe on the internet, people that dont talk to your normal friends.
2006-11-03 04:50:59 · answer #5 · answered by rudegal_shel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep smiling..exude confidence..they may not notice at first but you'll catch some eyes.. keep your chin up, shoulders back, a smile on your face and twinkle in your eye. its fail proof.. Just remember the reason they are being admired..its all looks.. but looks fade.. good luck sweetheart.
2006-11-03 14:42:05 · answer #6 · answered by yourmygoodfeeling 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be satisfied the way u are, ther are worst people wth physical disabilities than u.. be happy, change ur looks n dont compare. look to the people under u NOT over u. good luck. keep smiling
2006-11-03 04:52:40 · answer #7 · answered by sunflower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus get away from them and mix with the ppl who care abt u and really noe u...ppl say they change but they dont .anyway lotz of confidence will help....
2006-11-03 06:45:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up whatever you do. You need a confidence boost, new hairdo perhaps.
2006-11-03 04:48:42 · answer #9 · answered by jammer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to the blazes with them ,just be yourself and look as best as you can
and remember good looks are only skin deep
2006-11-03 04:54:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋