Im a Gemini...and my partner of 3yrs years is Scorpio!! Is it astrologically correct!?

Question

We have some ripper arguements but then have the best make up sex!!
We can make each other laugh and cry!!
We also have 2 beautiful kids! One is a Libra and the other is Pisces!!

Answer 1

Gemini & Scorpio

When Gemini and Scorpio come together in a love affair, they'll need to learn to understand and accept one another's differences -- and if they can, they will be a nearly unbreakable couple. Where Gemini is adaptable, intellectual, outgoing and chatty, Scorpio tends to be secretive, focused, intense and determined. Gemini tends to take things lightly, including their lover; Scorpio, on the other hand, has a very deep need for emotional connection and intimacy. Scorpio is generally very loyal to their lover and very connected to the relationship.

This relationship tends to be highly passionate and can often be characterized by arguments; Gemini loves a good debate, considering it the epitome of mental stimulation, and that characteristic Gemini flirtatiousness tends to grate on Scorpio's jealous, possessive nerves. Despite these differences, however, this is no dull relationship. Both Signs love to take chances and spice it up! They have lots of adventures together, but if things get too tense and arguments start to turn negative, they must make the effort to reconcile if they value the relationship and want it to last.

Gemini is ruled by the Planet Mercury (Communication) and Scorpio is dually ruled by the Planets Mars (Passion) and Pluto (Power). Scorpio is generally quite concerned with sexual and emotional intimacy; they need much reassurance that their lover values the relationship as much as they do. Thank goodness, then, for Gemini's excellent communicative abilities; the Twins should have no trouble communicating their dedication to the Scorpion -- if it's dedication they feel. Gemini can't and won't fake a commitment they don't feel, so intense Scorpio must learn to back off a bit. Gemini will certainly make a commitment to a love relationship, but only if they're free to do so on their own, not coerced into it.

Gemini is an Air Sign and Scorpio is a Water Sign. These two elements can be a great combination; after all, the best decisions are made when they incorporate the intellect (Air) and the emotions (Water) -- the mind and the heart. The trick, of course, is getting these two elements to work in tandem. Scorpio is a master strategist; if there's a decision to be made or a project at hand, they can help flighty Gemini focus on the best options. Gemini, in turn, teaches Scorpio to let go and move on when their efforts are thwarted. There is a downside to these two elements' union, however; Scorpio's emotional manipulations can prove to dampen Gemini's natural energy and enthusiasm. Also, airy Gemini can leave Scorpio's deep waters feeling choppy, rough and disturbed.

Gemini is a Mutable Sign and Scorpio is a Fixed Sign. Gemini tends to do things on a whim, just for the experience, contrary to Scorpio, who almost always has a plan (or an ulterior motive) in mind. Scorpio can use their focus and determination to help teach Gemini the value in finishing things before jumping headlong into the next experience. Once these two begin to understand that they can enjoy a satisfying relationship -- Gemini providing the reasoning and brain power and Scorpio bringing their healthy dollop of sex appeal, emotionalism and passion -- they can enjoy a truly mutually satisfying relationship.

What's the best aspect of the Gemini-Scorpio relationship? The strength they have when they function as a unit. They are both winners who refuse to give up, making theirs a relationship that never settles for second best.

Answer 2

Can light and airy Gemini find happiness with a dark and mysterious Scorpio? Absolutely! This is not a classic pairing, yet I see it work and often for logical reasons.

Let's first look at your differences, then at what pulls you together. Scorpios are not the talkers that Gemini are -- they could go for days without pulling their heads out of the newspaper, balance sheets, or whatever else they have attacked intensely. Scorpio's talent is to dig deeply under things and get at the roots. Scorpio lovers can get obsessed, but you adore that kind of intensity because it is so alien to you. They are also great in bed, you lucky Twin, for you will find them self-assured, sensual, sexy, sophisticated, and a little bit dangerous (but only in a good way, of course) -- a virtual 007 or Mata Hari. Scorpio will make love with an attentiveness and depth of emotion that will give you thrhills -- with Scorpios it's all or nothing.

You are open but Scorpio is secretive, always holding his or her cards close to the vest. When you fight, your Scorpio can sulk for days, as you attempt to clear the air and drop your anger. However, when your Scorpio is troubled, you may not know it for days; Scorpios can slowly stew in their unhappy feelings, and may not be sure themselves what the problem is. You can help your Scorpio by gently drawing him or her out. You are a master of words: precise, clear and objective, and Scorpios like this in you. They also admire your flexibility and adaptability; being a fixed sign, Scorpios have none of that. You are also very resourceful; when faced with a difficulty, you always find options. Even in a crisis, your intellect never fails you. On the other hand, Scorpios rely on instinct and intuition, which never let them down. Their psychic antennae are always up and receiving. They may help you avoid trouble in the first place!

If you can deal with your Scorpio's moods and possessiveness, you can have a joyous relationship that can last for years. You will need to be loyal to your Scorpio, for he or she will not suffer betrayal. You are air, they are water, and together you can create quite a happy relationship.

Answer 3

Don't take this stuff too seriously. The real things to be concerned with are in individual character. I am Libra and used to be heavily into the Astral charts. One, the calendars aren't the same as when the charts were developed, so the stuff is off by years. Two, its more important to reinforce positive character traits to develop each person's real potential, its not left to fate or negative will rule. Three, an astrological mismatch can work just as well as an straight match if both individuals are positive projectors. Negative projectors in straight matches are doomed more so than positive mismatched. Read Dennis Prager's book called "Happiness is a Serious Problem" and you'll understand my concern with positive and negative influences.
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Answer 4

I think it is "astrologically correct". Scorpio is trine gemini for a few degrees. Otherwise there are no major aspects between them - which means the other planets are influencing the interactions between you two.

Answer 5

No not really, scorpios are compatible with taurians, thats what the astroligists say anyway. But being a scorpio i believe that you can make it work with anyone from any star sign.

Answer 6

you have a split personality and your husband always want to win and argue - well thats what the traits of the signs are!!

I personaly dont listen to these stupid sign geeks, who think we should all be with connecting signs - just live life and have fun!!

jane x

Answer 7

it depends on what other planets you have

if you have compatible moons (emotions), marse (desire), or venus (love)..any it doesn't have to be all...

you'll be compatible..compare birth charts..go on google and type "free birth charts" and see what's there.

but remember, it's also how you feel...not what's written.

Answer 8

well they shud get along but scorpions r really secretive so beware

Answer 9

ditch those star signs and apply your senses...Good Luck...