I plan to re-marry, but she wouldn't allow me to see her parents. Don't even know she's got brothers or sisters.
2006-11-02 18:11:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe I make up stories about me going to be broke and see, thanks
2006-11-03 17:42:54 · update #1
I can tell you how to find out okay? tell her that you made a terrible investment and lost all your money. if she really loves you she'll stay with you, but, if she takes off, you'll know she was only in it for the money.
I hope things work out for you.
2006-11-02 18:30:20 · answer #1 · answered by atiana 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The word, "re-marry," should not even be in the same sentence as, "Don't even know she's got brothers or sisters and wouldn't allow me to see her parents." If she is that much younger than you, then your old enough to know that this is not right. You apparently have been married before. So you know how it works. This girl has got another guy on the side. NO matter how she makes you feel, it isn't special enough to not include you in her "entire" life. So heads up now before the nuptials. Because this will be divorce number 2 before your even out the marriage gate.
2006-11-03 02:24:34 · answer #2 · answered by ncamedtech 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all how long have you been with her? Maybe she has a certain time expectancy to be with a guy in order to have the guy meet her parents. Ask her about her family, I'm pretty sure she'd be more than willing to tell you if she has brothers or sisters. Some women just are as open as others, some want for you to ask. If you still get nothing from her just test her by not buying her gifts or taking her out, and you shall get your answer, if she is just using you for your money.
2006-11-03 02:17:49 · answer #3 · answered by laranita82 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she could be and might even be in denial about it... i was in a relationship with a woman 14 years older, thinking it was going to work... in the end, it was because of the sex, but i fooled myself into thinking it could work... it might have, if she wasn't such a pathalogical liar, but it's really hard for that type of relationship to stay sustained. it's one of those things that you need to be careful of, and take some time to yourself to make sure this is the direction you want to go... if you think there aren't any risks, you're fooling yourself, but depending on the people i think it could work under the right circumstances
2006-11-03 02:23:39 · answer #4 · answered by misterlyle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she didn't want you to meet her parents because you are older than her parents.
Be honest with yourself - minus your money, are there any other aspects of you that would attract such a young woman?
Love may be blind - but it is still able to hear and smell $$$.
2006-11-03 02:41:46 · answer #5 · answered by Lee S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
shes not being honest with you, believe me there is a reason. dont give her money or gifts , tell her if she wants a relationship you have to know her family and the truth about her life.
2006-11-03 02:13:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, she is probably just after your money..
Are you looking for a "Trophy Wife" ?
( Nothing wrong with that and I presume you love her )
Just get a good pre-nup...For both your benefit ....
She remains a good wife and gets her rewards, in time , for being a good loyal caring loving wife...As per the pre-nup...
2006-11-03 03:17:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hello,
are you crazy for considering marrage to this girl....if she is already hiding her family from you ....then there could be so mush more that she is hiding from you......if she is hiding her family from you what about a hubby???? you really need to reconsider your options with the situation your in......i have a rule with men if i am with them more than 5 months and don't meet their parents then they are not worth it......
2006-11-03 02:43:44 · answer #8 · answered by wendy p 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps she is trying to spare you from the parents... chances good they won't approve of you.
2006-11-03 02:26:02 · answer #9 · answered by McDreamy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not ready to get married.
2006-11-03 02:23:14 · answer #10 · answered by Pat B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋