I am completely satisfied with my wife and she is a really good wife. but recently i have felt in love with a very beautiful girl who is single and 5 years younger than me.living far from that girl is making me mad.I am 25 years old,my wife is 24 years old and the girl is 20 years old. I am not so sure but I think she has also felt in love with me. Please give me some advise.what to do in such a situation? i need your advice very much because I am not in a good mental situation. Thanks so much for sharing your valuable ideas with me.
2006-11-02 18:11:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The girl also knows that I am married.
2006-11-02 18:29:57 · update #1
I need very much to consult exactly with a psychologist about this matter. If you are a professional psychologist please give me your contact details so I can describe the matter in details.
2006-11-02 18:36:43 · update #2
=you did not say if children were involved. I assume NOT. How can you possibly say that you are satisfied with your wife? Shame on you. Either work it out with your lovely wife or get a divorce and set her free. If this is for real you both need to move on. God bless both of you.
2006-11-06 11:15:12 · answer #1 · answered by sunshinysusan 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
please be careful an think about your wife, Is this other girl worth screwing up your marriage? Do you think you could manage without your wife? I mean just think things threw an dont do anything you will regret.. Let me tell you as a wife, Being cheated on hurts very bad an its something I cant get over even though it happen to me 2 years ago an everything between me an my husband has been doing great since but I still cant get it out of my head theres so many things that remind me of that time in my life and i still hurt an cry over it... Think things threw ;)
Best Of Luck!!
2006-11-03 02:18:27 · answer #2 · answered by ohio_gurl042 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Akbar, stay away from this girl. You should be in love with your wife, that is why she is YOUR wife. So you must not be completely satisfied with your wife like you say. If your feeling so badly then you need to seek out professional counseling. Talk to a professional counselor, because if you don't, you will be talking to your wife's lawyer real soon.
2006-11-03 02:18:05 · answer #3 · answered by ncamedtech 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Akbar,
One simple question - What if your wife falls in love with another man will you except it ???? I know the answer all hell will break loose you and your family and your friends will be after her blood and and make her life miserable, the local maulvi will also issue a fatwa against her.
Double standards. Wake up, you dont need any advice just a cold water bath.
2006-11-03 03:15:43 · answer #4 · answered by Rahul 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Akbar- You are in danger of ruining 3 lives- yours, your wife's,and the 20 year old. If any of you have children you will ruin their lives for sure. Don't do it. You chose your wife. You have been happy with her.Work on your marriage. Have some self control.
2006-11-03 04:00:26 · answer #5 · answered by peggy j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow..ok, i am amazed to see to hear the same story again. what made you to fall in love with the other girl? its her beauty? what's wrong with your wife? isn't she beautiful enough that you had spent the last 5 years with her, and now your going for someone else? you should stop this.your wife must be in love with you. how sure are you that this new girl will accept you? does she knows that your a married man?? do you think that she would still be with you despite the fact that she is married
2006-11-03 02:18:03 · answer #6 · answered by chandni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you play with the fire ,you will be burned.....
If you want to stay married,you need to run from this other girl.
You can not have both worlds,decide now.You will have many pretty girls cross your path,and if you do not purpose in your heart now, to stay committed you will be yet another statistic
2006-11-03 09:52:07 · answer #7 · answered by harrisl66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋